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Learn karate, kung fu, tai kwan do, boxing, wrestling, or any fighting thing & mainly learn DEFENSE moves. then when he comes block his moves but dont attack him back because youll get into a fight & youll later see the teacher giving you a detention form. that way you cant get in trouble because your defending yourself, he'll see that your to hard to bully. but if hes bullying you by talking ummmm.......................

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It is "Tae Kwon Do". I take it and hate when people misspell it.
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oh sorry
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you see these are the ONLY things I know about tae kwon do:
1) its 3 words
2) its somekind of fighting form
3) its pronounced ti kwon doe
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How long has it been going on? If you don't mind me asking.

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About a week
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mmmhhhmmm
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Then let me see... Nothing physical yet, I hope... I would stand your ground. Once a girl who must have been twice my size told my I was a lesbo, because I was ugly... I showed a little aggression by slamming all my stuff in my lap down hard, I went right up to her with this attitude of, I was just way over there when you said that, now... What do you have to say to me now? The only words she had to say were "hit me or walk away!" I laughed, I knew that she was trying to play a self'defense card on me. I then stopped and eyed her for a few, then stormed off, she never bothered me again... but that was the first event, I took care of it fast because I've dealt with it by cowering down and hoping it'll go away, but if they can get you to act like that, they won't stop.
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flick him off :)

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JK DONT do this! :)
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Meh....YOUR REALLY ASKING ME. :D wowers all you got to do is show off your EPICNESS and get some swagger and learn KungFu and get a AIrPlane and crash into his house. or tell a parent or teacher

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I sware if i can meet this person..........

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WITS!!!! W stands for walk away! I stands for ignore! T stands for talk it out! S means seek help! First of all tell a teacher there is a bully. If your to scared then tell a friend. Whenever the bully comes near you, you have support.

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It takes a lot of internal fortitude. Remember the guy who said "give me liberty, or give me death", that's the attitude it takes to stand up to a bully.

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Kill them with kindness
Laugh with them and they will think that you don't care so they will move on
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I am at the bottom the totem pole n what i always do is ignore them n always b happy even if your sad n smile they hate that :D stay with your friends n dont start drama... they shud get bored with you n number one thing never back away let them know who you are when they decide to get in your face get back in their face plus some... You can do this!!!!

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Laugh when they hit u

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the person who bullied me i pretty much tackled him and he quit doing it i made him cry like a big ol baby

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yea right!!
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he's not in sports duh when i tackeled him he sat in a corner and baled
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Be tough and just say thanks to whatever they say. Trust me it tows the off ;)

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Don't react at all. Make like they're not there and keep walking on your way. It will drive them nuts. Because they're trying to get a reaction out of you. And trying to get you in trouble by hitting them first. They'll look pretty silly when you make them invisible. And unfortunately they will move on to bully someone else. It's the stronger person who resists a conflict. Just keep walking. Good Luck

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do what I did ball up your right fist and swing for a place slightly behind their head put all your weight into it step forward when u throw for more force. after the first hit don't stop for Anything go for a strait punch to the head instead of one that gose around and swerves back in... oh an the first hit has to Almost throw u off balance for the best effect if it gose to the ground stay on your feet at all cost don't mount / sit on the other person. take a wide stance and swing strait down. good luck oh yea strengthen up first a little

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With your pugilistic tendencies, it won't be long before someone slaps you with an assault warrant. You do not have the right to hit anyone. Confuscius said, "The one who strikes the first blow has run out of ideas.". Try using your brains instead of your fists. A gal that fights is no lady.
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Kick their ASS!!!!!!!

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First ignore him. Believe it or not he'll get bored after a while. If this doesn't work try to stand up to him. Make sure you have a teacher/ adult in view so he can't try to punch you. Most of all do not revert to violence because this will only cause you to get in trouble. If all fails tell a teacher, you might get ridiculed for telling a teacher, but it will blow over faster than this guy's taunting.

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Tell him to back off if he trys to punch go hide behide a teacher.

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Hey what's up
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1. Back off
2. Try to look bigger
3. Ignore him
4. Tell him your the boss

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This is late but- you can tell them to stop (do not ask, tell them). When it goes on again, you say (if its physical) I will hit you back next time. If its verbal, think of some REALLY good comebacks and you have them off guard and the day is yours (that's all for verbal). If you're being physical bullied- the third time he does it you hit him. Dont start a fight, but catch him off guard and only do one hit. Then be the bigger person and walk away. Hope this helps!

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take everything as a complement

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Wow... Tell a teacher? Run away? Thanks, mom... Bullies are always a specific personality type, and they almost always back down if you stand up to them. If not, you get in a fight. Maybe you'll win and maybe you'll lose. But either way, you'll be able to respect yourself afterward.

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Violence is not the answer try diplomacy or just don't pay attention to them at all.

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Stand up to them don't hit them just use words to hurt them and also get a bunch of people together that have been bully and go to a teacher or stand together.

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Is it physical or is it just name calling?

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