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Is it wrong to compliment a lady based on her looks?Or When does it become wrong complimenting someone based on looks?

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Complimenting somebody on their looks is never bad..unless you overdo it, or you're insinuating something sexual. As a girl, getting compliments on my looks really boosts my self-confidence :)

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okay?you look weirldy(real word) cute in your pic... :-)
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Exactly!
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right?!its like...she is?but,,,yea,,,wait ?idk...haha
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I think girls are getting over confident of themselves now, in these days.
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Depends; not all girls. There are still a lot of us who look in the mirror and see lots of flaws. Its nice when people tell us otherwise
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agreed....weirdly cute lady.
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No, like my Boyfriend say : It aint yo' BOOTY its yo' BEAUTY (:

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That's hilarious! LOL
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hahahaha . YEA . (:
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is your bf dave chapelle? :-)
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lol
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hey..hi bristol. :-)
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hey ppl. Wats up? :P
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No its not wrong to compliment someone solely on looks. It's not really ever wrong to compliment someone on looks or anything else. Its flattering.

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It isn't wrong unless you say.something like, "nice ass" then she is going to be offended. While if you say "hello sweetheart you look beautiful" she is likely to take it positivly.

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You hit the nail on the head! : )
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Beautiful answer!!!!
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no as long as its not sexual

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It is if you work for the Texas Dept. of Criminal Justice, as most of the "paranoid" girls/women, think you are trying to "hook up" with them.

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Would you agree its the wording one uses in the complement that makes the difference? I'm guessing the Texas thing is a work place thing?
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im not sure...are u tlking bout me?...:) JK

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maybe?maybe not...haven't seen you yet though...for now you're just an apparition/silhoutte of an attractive lady...so?there
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in which way the bad or good :)
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attractive lady....is never a bad start... :-)
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It really depends on how the compliment is presented. Ex. "Dang girl you are hot" vs "You look nice this evening" Some females would say their is nothing wrong with either, but some would consider the first having sexual undertones.

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Not at all, but if you say it rude like nice rack then that's not nice

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Lol, and the bad thing is this has to be explained to guys. Hehehe.
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haha
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In the work place it is very dangerous and should be avoided. What you say and mean as a complement could be misunderstood. Sexual harassment is real and you do not know how you message will be received.
I do not like it but better be safe.

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No, it's nice, women love compliments ... well, except for those bra-burning wackos from the 70's who think they represent all women but really only speak for a very tiny minority of women.

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Why did your comment get erased on my poll??
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Which question was it?
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yeah like the girls like my sister who don't shave a hair on their body and claim to never want to be married... and we italians are very hairy
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Jackie, those feminists who claim they don't want a man are lying to cover up their hurt-feelings that they got when they couldn't find one! haha
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it only becomes wrong wen u compliment them wen it benefits u. LOL :)

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true
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ha yep! :) LOL
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some of the questons on here are really weird lol
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yea... but some question the unquestionable. LOL
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i compliment to make the girl smile?is that good?
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yea. at least u hav good intentions..
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so how r u?jw
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i'm okay...ashley...wew....a lot happened today...lol
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cool.
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We love compliments:)

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some.
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Actually some girl don't know how to react to compliments, most will deny but inside they are thankful atleast someone notices their quality
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Keep on Ear. It's great you do that. It feels very good to get a compliment.!

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thanks lovely lady..
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You mean the one about the toothbrush? I put up a YouTube video of what Ace Ventura did when he realized he had kissed a man! Haha! I guess the mods didn't think it was funny!
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LOL tony!! Awesome :)) I'm gonna go check it out lol do u know when I gagged after i put the toothbrush down I thot of that exact same thing when ace Ventura did that!! Lol
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I think that you can never give someone enough physical compliments, as long as they aren't annoyed by it. Just pair it with compliments about personality as well so that you don't look superficial :)

There I answered it woo hoo!
~Ninja Jackie-san

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the only answer i was waiting for......you're late!?!?(b0ob punch)
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oooouch!

and haha it's payday at work so everyone demands their checks from me because im at the front desk. it gets busy :(
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hey jackie wats up
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nothin much. havent heard from you in days whats up with you?
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No its not a bad thing, it can actually help people's confidence level just be careful how you word things:D however complimenting every girls look will make you seem like a player and then girls may not feel you know that pretty after all

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thanks cutie
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