How can i find someone to love?
Stop looking. Putting yourself "out there" would help. Like, when you shop..do laundry in public, go to the library, etc. Strike up conversations & see where it goes from there..
E-Harmony!!!! hahaha =D
There are plenty of hook-up web sites available....
Are you that bad looking?
LynnDean makes a good point. Also, stop looking for someone to love. You're trying to start at the end. Try just making friends with women. Even if the friendship doesn't lead to a romance, it will help you better understand and appreciate women.