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Is it REALLY bad if you are dating your best friends boyfriend but he didnt even like her in the first place?

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If he's dating you while still in a relationship, he doesn't respect you either. and to answer your question, yes it is really bad

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idk thats a rlly weird situation

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o thank u:)
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srry i was no help at all lol
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um actually my friend broke up with him after she got expelled and um he didnt even like her so after she left he started likeing me and so did i so we got 2gether. he waas not dating bothe of us at the same time. i would NEVER date a guy like that.
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o sry i sent it 2 u instead of somebody else
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haha its all good :)
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ya u knind wenrt. but thats ok and this was for u:)
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:) this is for u haha
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haha ;D thanks
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anyway.......
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Umm yes kinda :/ you should probably rethink the relationship. Who do you love more, your bf or your best friend?

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Omg ik who u r! Lol! Why'd u write in parenthesis conpro1233???
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Rofl!! I'm like, wth is that u Con? Lol
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Cool! Is she nice??? And how is that weird lmlo
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wait so your dating him while ur best friend does?????? that happened to me b4 kinda(he did like me) and it was horrible DONT DO IT let him break up with her first that is horrible

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um actually she broke up with him after she got expelled and so he didnt even like her in the beginning. anyway after all that he started liking me and so did i so we started dating
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Yeah. What randomusername thinks!

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Haha that sounds funny
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I'm flattered
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As long as you best friend is ok with it

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He shouldnt be dating two girls. He needs to choose one.

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Don't blame that guy
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I don't think he can be trusted to be a boyfriend. Make him break with her if he really likes you.

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It may be the alke, but I am pretty sure that is wrong.

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Yeah that just shows what kind of friend and person you are. What if this was reversed, and she was dating your boyfriend?

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It is bad. Friends don't do that to each other, let alone best friends. He has no respect for you or her to do that. He will also do it to you.

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If she doesn't want you to yes. That's really no friend you are. If she doesn't care or cares little go ahead!

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Yes!!! Sisters b4 misters!!!!

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Yes!

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VERY BAd

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Thats cheating and so wrong shes your best friend so why would yo backstab her and date her boyfriend when you know shes dating him,and he is probably a player if hes going out with your best friend and you at the same time

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If you have absolutely no moral character, sure.

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You call yourself a best friend? Lol yea don't think so yes it's bad he's playing the both of you & you'll loose your best friend over some guy & you'll probably end up loosing that guy then your all alone regretting your mistake when it's to late to fix...wait is he still dating her or he's a ex boyfriend that your dating

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um actually we arent dating @ the same time. she broke up with him first and then he asked me out.
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First of all people the person said he didnt even like her in the first place and yes but no.

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omygod!!!! thank you!!! and i knew is was going 2 start probs. but i knew him since 4 grade. and we just started dating. she only knew him since 6 grade.
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It makes no difference how long you have known him. It's a crappy thing to do, and your "best" friend will hate you for it.
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Well, I mean it would be really bad if your friend still had feelings for him or is still dating him. If she is then that's not that good. But if your friend has moved on then I think everything will be ok

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just think...would you like it if you liked a guy and she dated him?

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Sure go ahead, but your probably not going to get any better treatment from him. If you'll go for this, he knows he can drag you through almost anything. Good luck with that.

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I'm having the same problem!! Crazyness

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that is horrible. i would absolutely hate you if i was your so called "bestfriend". that is back stabbing

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ya ur right. but shes been "seeing" other guys while she was dating him. well her best guy freinds liked her and she liked him. sooooo...... ya.
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but still if it was really her bestfriend she wouldnt of done it.
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Yes it's HORRIBLE! If she is your best friend and it's her boyfriend you shouldn't he is cheating on her! Would you really do that to her?? That's mean. Her boyfriend should have broken up with her before he dated you. And you should have asked permission. Because if it makes her feel worse he isn't worth it.

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yes because he should break up with her if he doesn't like her
(that is not an excuse)

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why did ur friend get expelled?

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because she did something REALLY bad and she was having issues at home so she did something that has never happened in a catholic skool b4
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yea!!! dont hurt ur bff

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If he's still dating your best friend then he doesn't respect you or your friend. Yes it is bad to date him espiecally if he's dating your best friend at the same time and you might not be such a best friend either.

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It depends on if there still dating because then it is wrong to date that guy.I mean I would want you to wait till your friend and that guy breaks up.

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he needs to pick

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It is always wrong to betray a best friend. I wonder if you have any idea what the word "friend" actually means. It doesn't matter if you've known him longer, or who broke up with whom. What matters is that best friends don't betray each other, ever, and especially over some loser guy. Men are a dime a dozen, dear. Close girlfriends are as rare as hen's teeth (and hens don't have teeth).

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nope if he didnt care for her then there would have not been a relationship there so you saved her from future heartbreak

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youre a terrible friend and your "best friend" probably deserves a better friend

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yes it is really bad .

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cm'on that's your best friend's boyfriend you gotta stop dating him you know

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