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Girls, i need some help here.....

I have really liked this girl for a long time, and i know she likes me too but i just dont have the time to have a girlfriend. I play five sports and they constantly have me traveling all over to compete. She says she wouldnt mind my busy schedule but i know if we dated it would drive her crazy. Should i give us a shot anyway?

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You never know if you dont try:)

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I would!

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You should still try. If she says she won't mind then you should try it and she what she says after that. If I really liked a guy with a schedule like yours, I probably would mind it a little but date you anyway because something like that wouldn't get in my way of dating a guy I really like. Maybe that's how she feels. You never know.
Hope this helped. I also think it's very nice that you care what she thinks so much
-Beth:D

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Go for it. You both will learn if you two can handle a tough schedule or not. Won't know till you try.

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Yea you should still give it a shot and when you see her just apoligize and get her a gift. But try it because this might be ur only chance

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You've explained to her that you were too busy for a girlfriend. Go out with her and "prove" it to her and then maybe she'll see what you mean. You like her but wouldn't be able to give her the attention that she needs.

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Heyy first of all, I think you're admirable cuz you care about the girl and not just your own feelings! :D
I think you should probably give it a try... if two people are committed enough I'm pretty sure you'll make the relationship last! :) All the best!

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you should because she said she wont mind and if she does then you guys can just break up and try to be friends....<3















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He asked 4 girls not sezyguys!
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Sexyguys I meant
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thats just my username i am a girl genious
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umm...then y is ur username sexy guy?
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Try! She is OK with it, and she must really like you to be alright with your busy plans! But even while you are busy try to be a good boyfriend. For example, call her and text her alot, even when traveling.

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You are young and this is what dating is all about. It would probably be good if she dated others, including you, just to see how much you mean to her.
Time and patience is a good thing..Also.spending too much time together can cause problems too, so just go with it for now, and see how you both accept the options that are there for you.

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Yeah.

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she should understand that it's not your fault, so you at least try.

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Yes if she says she wouldn't mind go ahead

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you need to decide whats more important. its not fair to bring a girlfriend into your life if your not going to have time for her.

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if she says she dnt mind ur schedule ask her to go with u if u n 2 like each other try n c what happens cnt hurt it may work it may not but least u knw

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Give it a try. You obviously care about her and just because you travel doesn't mean that it can't work. She already said she didn't mind your schedule. And you can always send a txt letting her know she's on your mind or call and tell her that. As long as your communication with her is good then it should work out. Plus if you don't give it a chance you will always wonder what if

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How are you going to know if you never try. She already said it won't bother her so if it does then it's mostly her fault.
-YeaBuddy-

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It's worth a shot. What do you have to loose.You will never know unless you try!

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If she says she wouldn't mind, try it anyway! If you guys really like each other & really understand each other, it will all work out :)

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"Your afraid of taking chances, How You gonna reach the top?" I agree with the answers above: GO FORR ITT! ! (:

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Go for it! If you really like each other you will be able to handle the busy schedule:)

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follow your heart

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Yeah definatly your adorable and sound sweet if she likes you shes probly dying to have ownership of you and I'm sure with a buisy scheduale you can find at least some time for her.Even an hour you can do a lot lil.

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Do it. She'll tell you if its not right.

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Yeah

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Please give it a shot, but sit her down again and tell her that a good part of the time she WILL be single cos you'll be gone. If she says she can handle it, & if there's feelings between the 2 of you, give it a shot. You might regret it if you don't! Footballer, all but 2 of us have said go for it-so go for it!

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Yes, you should! When you see her try to be romantic sense you travel a lot!

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If you like her that much for that long then try it out!
if it doesnt work out then it was never meant to be...
It would be really romantic if you kissed her rite before you left to go travel..
like if you guys went out...

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if you don't you'll never know

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yes

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you should go up to her and talk to her about it. tell her that you are really busy and tell her you want to go out with her but simply don't feel right about not being able to spend time with her.

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Boy go for it I mean if you really like her then yes but try to make alittle bit of time for you and her

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you have too open up start as really good friends and move up and up then get serious if you both are ready to take on the challenge.

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Give it a shot! :)

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i think if your schedule is that bad but u really like this girl then u will be willing to make it work even if it means messing with your schedule a lil bit

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YOU SHOULD!!!! if u like her and she likes you then give it a shot if it doesnt work out be close friends...:)

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I would try it out, in the past I dated a guy and him & I were always busy and mainly saw each other once or x2 a week. Full time school, sports, & events that I needed to attend. There's always a way to work things out. If she says she doesn't mind I would give it a shot.

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you never know if you don't try. it sounds like ur a really nice guy for caring about her feelings. i say go for it. :) ya true it might be a little frustrating with ur busy schedule, so make sure to make time for her. girls like attention. hope this helps!

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Go for it you never know till you try. lol good luck!!

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I think so. If you don't try it, you may regret it later.

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yes! :)

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Try she said she wouldnt mind. GOOD LUCK

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try it... if it does not work its 4 a good reason!

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its your decision. but i would try

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just go for it. if she gets annoyed then it just wasnt ment to be.... :) good luck!!!

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Hey, give it a shot. try to make it work. if it does, great! if not, at least you tried.

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Yes i think you should

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Follow your heart!

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anything is possible when it comes to love bro. give ity a shot you never know what might happen.

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If you really like her then you should give it a shot but make sure you have at least some time for her

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yes u should.... but also just because she say she doesnt mind your schedule she really does . so in this case u should be very considerate with her in just talk to her or text her when your gone

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I know how you feel. I've had two boyfriends, but I travel all around the country with soccer. If they're a keeper, like my current one, they won't mind your busy schedule. Plus, social networking sites make it easier to contact people when you aren't necessarily near them. And just because you're dating doesn't mean you need to see each other 24/7, right?

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ASK HER! And if she says no say you would give up a sport for her, and if she dates you GIVE UP THE SPORT! She would love that.

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YES YES YES YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ask her!!! and when you guys are dating and you are traveling see if she can come on a few trips just to let her know you really do like her. call her or text her every single day!

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Yes and whenever u 2 get interrupted say srry I love u be back soon and when u come 2 you first date say srry if I'm late and tell romantic stuff

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theres only one wa to be sure. go for it. Im sure if she says she doesnt mind then you have to trust and believe her..

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just try you might be surprised

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You should definitely try it out. You could be missing something great if you don't! <3

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if you both really like each other then yes. but you have to treat her right, and trust and believe in her. just make sure that you do at least make time for her. girls don't need that much time, only a little:) and need to know that they are appreciated.

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you should try dropping out on a couple of sports and then ask her out ,shes probably waiting for u to ask her out..

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if she really likes you, she wont mind ur schedule.

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Honestly, if you really like the girl you would devote time to her. Maybe try only doing 3 sports. If your not willing to sacrifice for her than you dont like her too much.

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If you never try you'll never know what's going to happen.

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Not being mean but things like that just do not work out girls like to have time with their bf and with your sports it would be to hard

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yes yes yes. go for it! give her a chance! u 2 could be so happy with each other, u never know. plus she did say she wouldnt mind....so that means...u should, seriously. give it a chance

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YES love is strong go for it

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If you don't go for it, she's gonna wind up with someone else in the long run and you are going to regret that you didn't do anything when you had the chance. So you should just go for it.;)

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go for it

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yes! It might ruin ur relationship if u dont!

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If you like her you should at least try and make a effort because eventually she will move on and you might regret it

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of course you should try!!!! you should never give up!!!! and if you two end up breaking up, stay friends because there is no reason in the world that you two shouldn't be friends!!!!!!! good luck!!!!

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If she really cares then she wont mind your scheduled.

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Yes because she wants you so bad she can put aside your schedule

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go for it. if she really cares it doesn't matter. :)

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Just go for it if she wants to.

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