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Should I take him back?

I loved him so much even though I was cheated on the whole time we were together. He's telling me how much he loves me & how sorry he is. I don't know what to do. I just love him so much...someone help.

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If you truly still love him and trust him that he wont cheat again then you should

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you love him? why did you cheat? haven't think that? dull
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If I were the situation of the guy, of course I will never turn back to you. You're not honest, your cheater..Someone he will deserve much better than you..OK?
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What?
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Give him the boot. I'll help you if you need help. You're setting yourself up for a heartbreak

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if you think that will make your life better. go for it !! Listen to your heart!!!

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I wouldn't risk it, he'll prolly just do it all over again, and hurt you worse

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its a tricky situation. becaue ive been in your shoes and i can relate. my outcome.... we broke up and i did take him back. we still together. but the thing is if you tae him back then be prepared to feel a bit insecure because u may feel like he is still cheating. if you feel like you can deal with it and its worth it to you then take him back. only you have to deal with it cuz no one else can tell u wht to do in this situation. goodluck

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If you like misery bring him back. After all misery loves company as they say.

My advice... RUN and get away from him and don't let him sweet talk you like he did all those girls he cheated with.

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i love this answer you are so right
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she is not so right. there are some good men out there. and the bad ones make it hrd for the good ones. i would never make an excuse for a cheating man but there is a reason for everything. and if real love in into play with them two then telling her to break up with him is easier said then done and trust me she will take him back anyway because she say she love him 4real... but i know what im saying is falling upon death ears... you all must be young so ima just leave it at that. :-)
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no he just wants power over you, I'm a teen guy, I know

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really if you are a teen guy how old are you ?
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Give him the cold shoulder, and if he still wants you and keeps on trying, then take him back!

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Tell him you are sorry too, and you forgive him, but you can not be apart of a love that included more than you, and his does. There is no more to talk about. You need time to heal, if he loves you, he will leave you alone and heal.

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No don't go back to him if he really loved you he woundnt of cheated on you!(:

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you a stupid how wake up open your eyes he wasn't thinking of you or cared about you when he cheated so no don't take him back cause he gone take advantage of you and keep cheating so no

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I was married to a man for 18 years. All he did was lie to me about what he was doing and make up stories. We moved all the time cause he didn't pay the rent, even if he had the money. then he'd lie about it. If I had the choice and an internet back in the '60's I wouldn't have married him. He will never change. he's grown and the cheating is rooted into his system.

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i'm a girl and i've risked these problems it's better to move on with your life even though you love him so much you gotta let it go.You have gotta stand up for your self and say i'm a women not a animal i deserve respect,honesty, and ecouragment it's not right to treat me like this hope you like my answer

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Just don't. Neither of you are mature enough to have this type of relationship. I looked at your previous questions and you both have way too much growing up to do. Why you want to pretend you are "married" is beyond me.

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doo what youu feel is right in your H E A R T : )

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Well stay with him. Now you've shown him how you will allow him to treat you. Or. Grow a back bone and understand that you deserve to be treated well, and respected. But hey if you don't mind being a door mat for this guy............knock yourself out!

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That's my girl!
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Hey lady!!!!
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If he cheated, he does not love you. Stay away from him!

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No!

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Nope

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All he cares about is himself. No reason to think he'll ever change. Cut him loose. You'll feel better.

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nooooo

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The whole time you were together? Sounds like these other girls have caught on to him as well. Now he's back to you, hoping you'll forgive him. With so many nicer guys out there for you, just let this one go. Bye bye.

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He cheated the entire time and you're even contemplating taking him back? Tell him to take a hike and never look back.

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Amen!!!!!!
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Leav him, you deserve someone who will treat you right and love you* , him cheating on you proves that he does not love you, im sorry... move on god will bring someone who is right for you:) who will love you and wont cheat on you.

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If he has cheated on you more than once, then don't take him back. If it was once and he sincerely apologizes, then you can give him another chance. But if he does it again, dump him and never take him back. Though it would be good to ask him why he did it. Sometimes its because he feels unloved so he goes to someone else to find it. The thing is, because he apologized he obviously loves you. But sometimes thats not enough. If he hurts you again it's not worth it. Don't worry you will find someone else who you love just as much if not more, even though it won't feel that way at first.

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Don't take him back how could he love you if he was cheating on you the whole time.All he is trying to do now is he is trying to juggle more than one girl at the same time.Also this might happen again so I would suggest moving on to someone new because he is no good to you.And then again he is lying to you he knew you would be upset if you were to find out but he did it anyway.I hope your problem gets better really soon.

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once a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater. He isnt sorry. He just has no better option. Hes using you as a second. a rebound. Hes using you.

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