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okay so my friend is being bullied and i saw these girls say something bout her so i told my friend what they said and my friend TOLD them that i told my her what THE GIRLS said... and now they are asking me questions why i did what do i do? i just wanna die....

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The reason your being bullied is because they see you as a weak link. Show them your not. Stand up for yourself (i'm not talking about starting a fight). Learn to stand up for yourself and don't let them know that there getting you down. They'll eventually learn your not as weak as they see you and leave you alone. Good luck.

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i dont get your question

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Basically shes being picked on because they said something about her friend so she told the friend and the friend confronted the girls about it and now there picking on animeangel.
At least thats what i got out of it.
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ohh i get now thanks
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welcome
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I'd just answer that it was your friend and you thought you over heard them say something about her. That your not trying to start a problem but that is your friend and if one of there friends over heard something that I'm sure they would want to know.. What was said?

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I can't say that. It was actually a picture. They drew a mean picture about her and so I told my friend about it, then my friend asked the girls that I told her. One of the girls is asking me WHY and if I did tell my friend. What do I say? I can't ignore them!! ):
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Well first of all your friend shouldn't have said it was you that saw it. She should have just said a friend saw it and not ratted you out cause that's not cool..I'd just say " hey look it was my friend , you would do the same if it was your friend someone was drawing/talking about. I didn't mean to start drama and I really didn't think she was gonna confront you about it. But I couldn't not tell her"
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Find out exactly what your friend said and figure out what to say u said from that.. Give the bare minimum.. But u have to know what she said to be able to know what to say when they act like your lying and you don't want to say too much cause it could look like you are starting crap with them
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If u tell on her or mouth back it could cause a worse confrontation.. I'd just play it cool and do what I said previously less u think it could be a really dangerous situation.. Then which you should tell an adult..
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Report it to your school counselor if you feel threatened or afraid.

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Stand up for yourself

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IGNORE EVERYONE at school that messes with you and talks about you.. THEY have NO life at all their life probably sucks so they want to mess up someone elses. I ignore people if they get on my nerves it may be very hard but do it.

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Tell an adult, don't let them get to you.

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You need to tell them that it's not right to treat or talk about someone like that and how would they feel if it was them. If it doesn't stop you need to tell someone else Like the teacher or your parents. Dont feel bad about protecting someone. God would want u to stand up and protect someone else from being hurt and if they get made at u are they really your friends?

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Bullying is a very serious problem that can cause you to doubt yourself, lose self-esteem, and, in extreme situations, be physically threatened.

If these girls are making your life miserable, the best way to get them to stop is to project to them that you aren't afraid of them. Stand up tall and straight, hold your head up when you walk and sit, keep your shoulders back and walk as if you owned the world. Smile at people you don't know and don't give a darn if they don't smile back. Acting confident will help you to feel more confident. It's called "fake it till you make it". Feelings follow actions, so if you behave as if you are calm and peaceful, you will start to feel more calm and peaceful. Breathe deeply and slowly; this will help you to relax. Don't try to pacify these girls by answering their questions or apologizing, just hold your head up and show them that you are above all this.

If they are threatening you physically, tell your counselor at school, your parents, and any other adult that you trust. Don't wait.

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You did the right thing, don't second guess yourself. You aren't the one who did wrong.. the girls are. And you should tell them that. Don't back down, stand up for yourself.

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Well your friend that you were trying to protect is just an idiot plain a simple.
But then it's your fault too for spreading gossip.

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im serious u should tell a teacher or princable i know ur probally scared too because your friend will get mad but he or she will get over it and you could just make a new friend

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And you still call her a friend? WTF

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its all her fault ik... but i feel bad for telling her the gossip they said... any tips?
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See my answer above.
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thank you! (: but... shes really popular and ya know she'll gang up on me with her friends. MY FRIENDS are scared and wont do anything...!
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