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People always tell me that Im pale...

They'll just come up to me and be like "Do you ever tan?" or "You are so pale did you like bleach yourself???" Its really annoying and makes me self conscious. I am going to Florida over Spring break and I will try to tan but its hard for me cause I either burn or dont tan at all. What is something I can say to them when they tell me that and what can I do for now to just not look so pale?

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I'm kinda pale, too, but I don't care. Be happy with who you are, Swags. Let me tell you something else, too: There's always gonna be folks who want to try to make you "better" looking even if you're the most beautiful woman in the world. This is a fact. If you were an unattractive person, people would be less concerned with trying to "improve" you.

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Thanks :D
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Mouth Dropped!
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smh.
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I'm being humorous and I don't get a thumbs up!
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I forgot what smh means.
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Shake my head??? I didnt see what you posted awesomeness.
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Shake my head I think
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It got removed awesomeness I didnt get to see it!
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Oh wait never mind I saw it
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In my opinion, you should not argue or tell them anything when they tell you that you are pale. That is who you are and if they don't like it, then that should not bother you. Live your life and be yourself.

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Thankyou:)
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Ignore them and pretend they are not there. Like my friend Cassie Simon would say, Only you can be you Only I can be!

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Wait what? xD thanks what does the sain or how does she say whaaaaat?
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Oh do u mean only u can b u only i can be me?
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Just ignore them! Be happy of yourself. If you want to get tan, just make yourself tanner by using foundation or blush.

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Thanks! Good idea
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seagirl1998

I know what you mean exept people are always bugging me about my hair. It's like so mean... Well anyways you shouldn't change how you look unless you want to be more tanned. I suggest using Loreal Sublime One Day Tanner. It spreads evenly and it washes off with soap so it's not permanent.

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Thanks I'll look into it sorry people bug you about your hair I agree its annoying!
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sakura09

i think pale is pretty.

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Thankyou:)
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Who cares if you are pale? Pale skin is beautiful. I am Pale(my skin is white), and I can't tan at all(I will burn). My skin is very sensitive, so if I get too much sun I will get skin cancer when I get older(like my father). There is nothing wrong with being pale, and don't let those mean people get to you. They are bullies who want you to feel bad about yourself. Don't let them win.

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Thanks so much and I hear pale people have less wrinkles!!!:)
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Anytime. Really? I have never heard that before :) I'm sure it is true because people who tan a lot damage their skin.
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