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How can i tell my husband i dont want his family living with us?

me and my husband own our house but his parents two sisters and brother( with girlfriend and kids) came to live with both sister have kids i dont but their always talking stuff about me and judging me because im not a house wife like them and i go to school and their always comparing me to the brothers girlfriend what do i do?

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put your foot down gurl! tell them thats enough of them talkin bout u. your husband has to take your side to especially since your his wife. he shouldnt let them run over you like that.

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Go up and tell them! Don't be a noob!

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All u need to do us sit down and talk to him about it and tell how u feel and ask what he feels about what your saying it's a easy way to sit down and talk calmly about it then shouting it

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Ive been there and done that, it never works out! My husband and i had my family living with us. We argued and gave the silent treatment all the time and never had any private time. PUT YOUR FOOT DOWN SWEETIE, tell them gently or put a pillow under their butt, just say now isnt a good time for you two to have guest and you dont want to strain any relationship that you all may have. I hope everything works out, best of luck.

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just be like honey boo i dont want yo family living with us. they might catch us doing the nasty..

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his family is his problem...nothing you say means anything smh..the only way you are going to get any respect is if your husband demands respect for his wife...if you cant feel at home in house than that should not be your home..

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You could give him an ultimatum - you or them. And since he vowed to be with you, forsaking all others, he needs to give them the boot.

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OPTIONS
1.Give him a cookie that says " divorce?" lol.

2.But yeah just put your foot down and if he's not dumb he'll think of something to tell them why they can't.

3. Their called retirement homes

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You need to have a talk with him ASAP Why so many at one time? One thing to help till they get on their feet but not to take over. Just be prepared to be the bad guy when this hits the fan. You think they ganged up on you before you ain't seen nothing yet. Wish you the best of luck.

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