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SexiSadie: 1 year ago

What do I do if I think my boyfriends cheating on me

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ACuriousMind: 1 year ago

Look for subtle implications of change in his behavior. Record these changes. Consult with him about the changes, without an accusational tone. Note only justified evidences of his behavioral changes in the conversation. Do not absorb any biased facts (E.G. His friends' inputs or hear-say). Note his willingness to cooperate. Some people will become defensive when hiding information. If he does not offer- or allow viewing of personal information, it may mean he is hiding something, although some people are extremely private and you must decide which of the two applies. In more extreme measure of obtaining information, you may consider covertly obtaining information by espionage means, but, if caught and nothing is occurring, you will appear distrustful, so perform at your own risk.
It is important to only evaluate the facts based on logical conclusions and not through internal emotional responses. Some people experience behavioral change from many environmental factors, so consider his environment as well. I hope you discover what you are seeking.

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Shady_gal: 1 year ago

Spy on him :P

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vserenity16: 1 year ago via iPhone

Well, you can ask or you can spy on him. Either way the truth will come out eventually. If there's no trust in a relationship then there's no relationship at all. Think about it maybe this is not the right guy and your just finding out. Life is short, live to the fullest, good luck :)

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jacobpumbwe: 1 year ago via iPhone

You need to catch him in the act tho the truth hurts .so be carefull

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sweetypie1125: 1 year ago via iPhone

Mine b friend was cheating ask people who r u dating to see if anybody wil say his name.

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Purple_Haze: 1 year ago

It would suck if he finds out you were spying when he wasn't cheating LOl

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Burner24: 1 year ago | Last edited at 8:25PM on 3/1/2012

spy on him or ask your friends to keep an eye on 'em and tell you if they see something odd , you need more than 2 eyes for this kind of thing. I once got a friend's GF cheating on him , I told him immediately and he was already expecting it , he never caught her so he asked his pals to remain alert (including me).

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sherryFerguson : 1 year ago via Android | Last edited at 8:29PM on 3/1/2012

sadie you confront your boy friend. then you scan process and and delete if you find it to be true he is cheating!

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TylerJulian: 1 year ago

Ask your friends or his but make sure they don't tell him

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BlueDragon321: 1 year ago via iPhone

Confront him!

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tsering64: 1 year ago

It's just that you think well try on something that you can catch him easily like creating fake account and adding him and try to know what he really thinks about you .well mine it helped

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Reconized: 1 year ago

Break up with him?!?!

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