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So I broke up w/ my bf of 5yrs and I miss him a lot...should I give it a try again?

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There sure wasn't enough information to give you a good answer. Why did you break up with him? Was either of you cheating? Were you bored with him? Was he bored with you? Were you taking each other for granted or was he not treating you right?

If one of you were cheating on the other....I'd say forget getting back together b/c chances are probably pretty good it would happen again. If you were bored with him try to figure out why? Maybe the chemistry just wasn't there and you miss him now only because you went out for so long and you were just comfortable with him. Getting back together because of that would be okay in the beginning but then you'll be in the same position later on.

If he wasn't treating you right or being any kind of abusive (physical or mental), then you certainly need to move on.

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Of Course!

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What are your reasons not to?

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If there is reason to break up, then together isn't worth it. That's just my opinion.

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Yes!!!

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Not unless the reason you broke up is no longer a possibility or an issue. it's tough to go backwards, because if break up was bad its hard to forget. Things may go fine for a short time but after the first few weeks when the back together honeymoon is over things get harder and old issues resurface when ever there is another one. You'd have to agree to let the break up thing stay in past and not bring it into your current relationship. since the break, have you done better ? If so keep going.

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