A girl no, it's fine. If the situation was reversed, then it would be bad. A 19 year old man wants only one thing from a 14 year old girl. However since its reversed from that, it's ok, I don't know many women that date younger men because they are easy. Hell I don't know that I have ever heard of that happening. What's wrong with her? Why is she dating a 14 year old? That seams weird, usually women like older men.