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Ever since last year when I got bullied my friends have been acting odd around me they ignore me when I'm talking,interrupts me, watch me by

myself and don't even see if I'm ok and I feel like they don't even care about me or only staying my friend because they feel bad for me please I don't know what to do

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it sounds to me like you have made some kind of display about being bullied that presents you as a victim. your "friends" are like rats on a sinking ship. they bailed. you dont have to let bullying beat you. assert yourself. find something you are good at and do it until you are the best at it. make friends that share your interests. do not shun anyone. even those who may have bullied you or been nonpartisan in the past. you are looking for your own niche and so is everyone else. find a niche with others and you are part of a team. lead the team and you are popular. no matter if you are jock or nerd. there are those who will accept you. and many who will honor you. stand up and be counted.

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What happened last year?

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I got bullied by what I thought was my best friend she was spreading rumors getting my friends on her side and assaulting me at school and the teachers and principal did nothing and I went home crying everyday
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make new friends that care about u even if ur wierd or mean or even if u get bullied

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I hate to say this but they aren't your friends!! Friends stick up for you and will stand by you through thick and thin !! You are better off without them!! Everyone needs to learn to stand on their own and since you happened to get bullied last year what better opportunity than now! Show everyone you are stronger than they think

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You might have tried this already, but if not, you should try asking them "what's wrong? Why are you not treating me like a real friend anymore?" just be straight forward. That usually gets the job done best. I hope I've been some help and wish you all the best of luck!!!!!

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Already tried that they just say nothing and then walk away
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I'm sorry but then I must say "missmandy" is right. Those are not your real friends. I would go search for better ones. I myself grew up with few and sometimes no friends at all in school. It's not fun. But I think it's better to have no friends than friends who make you cry
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I just wanna add that standing up for urself is a good idea like others say. But they may not realize how hard it really is. I could never find the words to say. I got into a few fights (and won) but after a little while the bullying started again eventually I just ignored the bully completely, so they got bored and stopped trying. But it did take a while. I'm sorry ur friends aren't treating u like they should. It truly makes me sad. I hope u can find new friends and wish u all the happiness in the world!!!
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It's time for u to get some real friends girl... they sound fake! As for the bullying, I hope it has stopped but the only thing u can take from that is to know u are a better and more mature person and usually people who bully have insecurities within themselves so just brush it off!



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