There are so many ways to make a man happy after a long day at work. You may make him a hot bath so that you can make him comfortable and relaxed. Prepare a delicious meal for him. You can get more tips on http://www.wikihow.com/Keep-Your-Man-Happy.
If I had a rough day- hang back & stay out of the way, don't ask me ? about my day, don't give me a handful of bills as I walk through the door, & don't surprise me with look who's coming to dinner. Good day--the kids are with relatives, you greet me wearing lingerie & a smile, we get to know each other, take a relaxing sail on the bay while enjoying a nice meal, put the "If the sailboats a rocking, don't be a knocking" sign up.
If you "need" to put effort into making your man happy by sexual arousal, he's not that into you, period!! Hot meals are a given as well as the attention given to him when he gets home from a long day at work but don't forget the oldest rule of thumb. If she's not happy, nobody's happy! Show him you love him by simply greeting him with a smile and most certainly show interest in HIS day. Nothing means more to a man than his woman showing interest in what he does. All that remains is the fact that she cares enough to ask. Remember, if he's truly unhappy, he could walk away at any given time and seek "happiness" elsewhere and whether she likes it or not, he will do this time and time again until HE realizes what HIS true happiness is all about. On the flip side, should this type of behavior occur, he may realize all too late and lose what really mattered to begin with.