it will take a while & its not gonna be easy , but you shouldn't rush into something with anyone else . just get to know yourself again , hang out with some of your girlfriends , enjoy yourself & get your priorities together before anything else . stay strong !
wow, i am in the exact same situation right now, i have been with my boyfriend for around 5 years, and i relise now that i am so unhappy... im so scared to leave him though because i dont want to be alone and i dont know how to start over...... and im scared that if i leave him ill regret it and itll be too late! it sucks!!