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My boyfriend cheated on me.

I dated this guy & he cheated on me.
Now he wants to get back together.
---- I met this guy & we started talking a lot, then we grew feeling for each other & stated dating... We dated for maybe 4 weeks, Because I found out he cheated on me the second day we started dating. & he never told me I found of from the girl he cheated on me with. He says he loves me & everything, but I'm just not sure to believe it. He still talks to the girl he cheated on me with so I don't know what to do, I don't think their going to stop talking either.. But yeah he wants to date again & I'm not sure what to do.

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Dont go for it. How can he love you only after four weeks? & if he did it the first time, then he will most likely do it again! Im lucky enough not to have to go throught the trouble of guys because i like girls,but ive been hurt & trust me its not worth it to go through it twice . Just smile & show that you can go without him(:

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dont do it he obviously didnt love you and he cheated on and now he feels sorry for you that's why he wants you back dont do it i feel for the same thing it will just stab you in the back

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Ok when the first words out of your mouth say "My boyfriend cheated on me." why would you give him another chance? If someone fools you once, it's their fault. But if they fool you twice, then its your.

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don't date him!!! the same thing happens to me and I went out with him again and got my heart broken.

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drop him just drop him and find a new man

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Don't date him EVER

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I know YOU know what to do! Have enough respect for yourself as a woman to get out of there. He cheated on you! and he is still talking to that girl. Those are all red flags. Dont let yourself get into this mess again

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LosXAngeles96

No why would you do that it sucks this happened to you twice hope you find a good guy

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Don't do it

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nooo don't give him a 2nd chance don't let ur gard down if he cheated once he can do it agin especially if he still talking to the grul u deserve better then that just next time make sure they keep it real & Always remember ACTION SPEAK LOUDER THEN WORDS ... PS TELL HIM TO KICK ROCKS U NEED A REAL MAN NOT A CHILDISH GUY

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WOW ! you tell it like it is sister
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hell yea I keep it 100% real that's how it has to be you know... Thanks ^_^
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First of all, if he cheated on you and said he loved you only after 4 weeks of dating, he obviously doesn't know what "love" is.
Don't go back to him. By saying no, it will be like him getting karma for cheating on you.

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That's seriously what I told him!
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No way! because then you look like a submissive door mat! Maybe after a while you guys can be friends but dont go out with him!

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He is an idiot! ;)

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You shouldn't date him again. obviously in his mind one beautiful girl just wasn't enough. You see, the way men think goes a little like this. When they see someone like you they want you. But once they have you, their just happy that they accomplished the first task and don't care anymore. And when they lose the girl they DID have, then they want it again. If you go back to him, the cycle will just keep repeating. And repeating. And repeating...

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don't do it,if he cheated once he will again plus its his lost not yours he should of gave you a shot when he had it,you are beautiful keep your head up

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Cheaters are traitors. Traitors are cowards. Cowards dont deserve a second chance.

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no, if he loved you he wouldnt have cheated on u in the first place

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Men look 4 relations and women look 4 relationships. Dump the loser, he's just sowing his oats with you and the other girl.

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dump him

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We aren't dating?
I broke up with him along time ago...
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girl dont fall for it. hes a lier if he wanted to go with u and he thought u were his dream girl he would have nerver cheated

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Do not date him he is bad and mean.

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Kick him to the curb. He's trash... Beneath you.

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Don't I've been cheated on before too and I forgave her and guess what? She did it again 1st with my best friend then with 3 other random guys. So yeah I wouldn't.

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CelesteZ

Kick his @$$! He's not good enough for you.

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