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How to get rid of a pregnancy after 1 month

I took to pregnancy test about a month ago and I was wondering is there any home remedies for getting rid of it? I have skipped 1 period already and I'm not ready for a baby.

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Getting rid of a pregnancy in such a way would not be a good idea. You should try going to your nearest Planned Parenthood facility in order to see what your options are as far as pregnancy termination. You may also want to get tips on how to prevent pregnancy in the first place, so that you won't have to face such tough decisions.

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Poor baby has no choice in the matter.. Im going to pray for you.

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Perhaps prayers are needed as well, for this young woman in such a difficult situation with so many other women being harsh and judgmental?
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"getting ride of a pregnancy"
Wow. Interesting way of putting it.
Hopefully you now understand the principle of cause and effect in your own life.

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I agree with LadyK8, but wanted to bring up the option of adoption. There are so many people out there that can't have a baby for whatever reason and would love and care for your baby as their own. I was adopted and am glad for my wonderful family and the biological mother that thought I was worth enough to give me a chance at life.

I am not actually Pro Choice or Pro Life, but I love this quote from Mother Teresa, "It is a travesty to decide that a child must die so you may live as you wish."

You do not have an easy choice before you, so I wish you luck in deciding correctly.

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You should have thought about that before you had unprotected sex. No there are no "home remedies" to get rid of a pregnancy. Make an adult decision and give the baby up for adoption instead of terminating it.

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If you do decide that abortion is your choice, be prepared to spend $350+ to have it done. If you're under 18 you may have to get your parents permission to have the procedure done. Also, you're probably about 8 weeks along, so if you're going to do it, you need to in the next 4 weeks. Like bellydncr said, learn from this and don't make the same mistake again. This problem could have been avoided by a $3 box of condoms. Go to planned parenthood's website to read further and find a center near you.
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I think abortion is also an adult decision. Not every woman is in a position to give her body over for at least nine months and spend a lifetime wondering about the child she gave up for adoption. Some women are not able, nor want to, wonder about what became of their offspring. There is still dignity in deciding abortion may be the best answer.
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We all have our own opinions on the issue at hand. Personally, I am pro-life with a few exceptions that I agree abortion would be a better choice i.e rape, damaging to mother and significant birth defects where the baby would be stillborn. I volunteer at PP doing a group with teen moms, and yes they have a hard life but I respect their decisions to either keep the baby or have an open adoption. My main problem with abortion is I have seen countless girls come in getting their third, fourth or fifth one. I personally see it as an easy way out. My mother almost had one with me.. I guess that's why I feel so strongly against it. She said she wasn't ready, but once she heard my heart she just couldn't kill a living thing- it was her wrongdoing, not mine. Whatever she decides is her decision, I just want her to learn from this and not make the same mistake twice. This is my opinion and in no way am I trying to offend people, but I'm sure someone will be as we all have different views.
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Yes we all have our opinions. My parents fostered children that were abused and neglected. There were( and are) long lists of adoptable children that nobody will take because they are not shiny, new " perfect" babies. These children had parents who were talked into having children they were I'll equipped to handle. Numerous abortions- sad. Numerous children without hope of finding a home- a tragedy.
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Just all the more reason to educate young teens on safe sex and I'm sure that's one thing we can agree on!
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Not one of us here has led a life without mistakes. The judgement and finger wagging infuriates me. Sweetie, if you decide that terminating your pregnancy is the best thing for you to do, do it in a safe medical environment. it's your choice and your body. Learn from this experience and know that everyone judging you has their own skeletons in their closet. Don't bring s child into this world that you aren't equipped to take care of, if adoption is not an option for you that's fine too. Pregnancy, labor and delivery are no joke. It's NOT selfish to make the best choice possible. Good luck.

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Agreed. I hope I didn't sound judgemental in my comment; I was trying to use my life experience to show her that there are other options.
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Adoption adoption adoption...... Plz don't get an abortion later on it will be the biggest mistake of ur life........not that I've done that or anything

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I know many women who don't ever feel that abortion was a mistake. They are grateful the option was there and it turned out for the best.
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Alot of us moms arent necessarily ready for a baby. I certainly wasnt at 18, and single, but i had my son and he has made my life better 10 fold! Termination could be the right choice for you, noone else walks in your shoes. Tough decision, you will make the right one!

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There are all sorts of ways to end a pregnancy without medical intervention. From the time we lived in caves and killed things with rocks, to current times in places where medically supervised abortions are outlawed, women have been doing it.

Unfortunately, an alarming number of mothers die from it along with the fetuses they're carrying.

If you lack the expertise to, say, remove your own appendix, or give yourself a pap smear, you lack the skill to safely end your own pregnancy.

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If you don't wish to be pregnant at least end the pregnancy safely and with factual medical information. Know what your options are no matter what you eventually decide.

http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-topics/abortion-4260.asp

Good luck

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What if your family will disown you and you will lose everything you ever had and you are not married and you aren't that stable financially. then what the hell do you do?? i want to know how to save me and my already existing son's life from being alone entirely. I don't have enough money to get an abortion i need an affordable way to kill this seed

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So far I know you can get rid of pregnancy till the 1st 3 days of having sex through emergency contraceptive pills. But if you did not taken any pills by 3 days of having sex the only solution is to get abortion. But Abortion could be made in two ways. If the fetus is less then 3 months of age you can abortion with abortion pills. Its the easiest way. But if you are in the bad fate and passed 3 months already you need to get abortion through surgical abortion. Thanks.

Sources: http://howtohelps.com/how-to-get-rid-of-pregnancy-with-the-help-of-medicine-or-abortion-pills/

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when it is not up to 3 months you can use pills

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no to sex.. that's the best way to get rid pregnancy..

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