Is it possible for a pregnant woman to go to her first two doctor appointments and not have an ultrasound done?
Yes if the two appointments are within the first trimester, the Dr may wait until after 12 weeks to have an ultrasound done. However if you are anxious you could talk to your Dr to see if she/he can have one done earlier.
Yes. My wife opted for this. She simply told the doctor that she wanted to wait until the 20 week mark.
It depends on the first day of your last period if your only 4 weeks pregnant chances are they won't see a fetal heartbeat yet