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yarilisf
yarilisf: 1 year ago

My kids are hyper and his is calm.His son is not happy about my kid coming over and invading his space.How can I smooth thing out?

I'm with someone that has a 10 year old son and I have a 6 year daughter old and a 5 year old son.



He is a great kid just not use to this idea. I really love his dad and don’t want him not to like me.

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kennedy27
kennedy27: 1 year ago via iPhone | Last edited at 2:36PM on 3/8/2012

Well I'm 12 And I feel the same way about my dads gfs kids bc I tell him repeatedly about how much I don't want them around and I miss spending time with my little sister feels the same way and I know how the kid feels he feels hopeless guilty mad sad angry i don't really think u can fix things but bye me telling u somewhat of how he feels it mite help u to relate put ur self in that position. hope it helps sorry for ur situation.

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sadiesmomma: 1 year ago via iPhone
I feel sorry for you. That's gotta be hard dealing with:(
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kennedy27: 1 year ago via iPhone
It's not easy but I guess I just get use to it..:(
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sarahngoche
sarahngoche: 1 year ago

To smooth things out with the kids, you need to slow down on any changes caused. The kids can feel unsettled, when changes they are not used to are piled on them. You need to find ways for the kids to experience real life together by taking them to a theme park, eating out together and finding solutions together. Get to love and understand the kid and your kids will do the same.

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lindasyluv
lindasyluv: 1 year ago via Android

well sometimes kids dont like babies coming in its called sibling riverlay just say honey dont be nervous i will love you for ever

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sadiesmomma
sadiesmomma: 1 year ago via iPhone

I'd say if you were in a marriage or he was the kids don't like seeing their parent with someone else. Or if they've seen lots of different relationships come and go that could affect their behavior. Just go slow and don't push

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