You don't. That is something he needs to work out for himself. Now.....you need to decide if you are willing to take this, or do you respect yourself enough to move on and find someone who trusts you. The choice is really up to you. You can't change someone that doesn't want to be changed.
From past experiences of my own.... Make sure that you do nothing that you wouldn't mind your partner knowing about. If your life is a complete open book, then he'll have nothing to be worried about. I've gone as far as leaving my phone unlocked so that my messages and phone records could be accessed at any time, left my email wide open so that all messages could be read. It was extreme on my part, but because I had committed the injustice in the first place, being wide open about everything eased my partner's fears when nothing was or has been found since.
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You EARN his trust, he can't just give it. Though being in a relationship does mean he must have trusted you?this does not mean it is a CONSTANT. REASSURE him. do your best to try and not make him doubt you anymore.
Truth be told if trust isn't there the relationship is not worth continuing... Have a heart to heart talk with him. Dont give up guy friends he needs to trust you. Cuz truth is he wont give up his friends for you its not fair to you... Just saying
What I did was lose ALL my guy friends...becasue i really liked this guy i was with...in fact I LOVED HIM...so not having guy friends helped us ALOT! it took me a while to lose them...but i did. Easeir said then done i promise...but he needs to trust you...if he dont then maybe you need to be his lost.! BEFORE HES YOUR LOST
you shouldnt have to try and convince any man to not cheat on u. A man that loves you will not do something like that to ruin a relationship. if you feel like you have to keep on trying to convince ur bfs to not cheat, u need to start looking for other types of men. U will find someone who treats u well, just be patient. Remember that a womens intuition is mostly always right. follow how u feel, regardless of how much u might love him or not. it isnt worth the hurt to stay with someone like that. U want to feel secure in a relationship, and if ur man isnt making u feel secure, talk with him, or find someone who can. Best of luck :)
you really cant when there is jealous issues in a relationship it doesnt matter how hard u try he will always have that in the back of his mind u just have to deal with it tell him to go with what his heart is telling him and not his mind he probably has been cheated on in a past relationship and he cant help how he feels if you love him just guide him as much as you can to help him to not feel that way but in all realitiy it will never go away
I'm with ynp214 on this one. Jealousy and insecurity (his) can destroy a relatioship very quickly. You don't have to prove a single thing. If he returns your love he won't be suspicious of you. Unless of course, you give him cause ;-)
Honey, I'm with the other fabulous people who have answered this question! An ex-boyfriend of mine used to accuse me of cheating on him all the time... and after almost three years, I broke things off. I told him that if he didn't trust me by now, that he never would. It was the hardest thing for me to do at the time, because I loved him so very much. Remember that no matter how much you love him, if he doesn't trust you, the love is not truly reciprocated. Remember that trust IS love, and love always trusts. There is nothing that you can do to earn it, or any way for you to show him your sincerity. Trust is one of the most important foundations of ANY relationship-- and without it, a relationship cannot thrive or survive. If you want to give him one last chance, tell him (CALMLY) that you need him to trust you, and trust what you say, in order to stay together. Tell him how it makes you feel when he doubts your sincerity and your actions. And if things don't change, consider moving on... because if he doesn't trust you *now*, when will he? Hope this helps, and good luck <3