I don't think its wrong to have those feelings as long as you don't act on them. You have to be the grown up and do what is right. An 18 yr old as not grown enough emotionally to be able to handle the situation and would probably get very hurt.
Lust is not love. What exactly do you have in common? Attraction is what it is. Nevertheless, what are your intentions? I think you should express that to her before anyone can say it's not good or bad.
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Thats bad but, there is a lot in common there, physically and it can be a real connection i think....I love 50 year olds. I always have. Their bodies are totally filled out and their nice and their usually more established too (they have homes and cars and nice things) I actually lived with a woman that age and It was good/great I fell in love with her.
It is wrong for anyone of any age to lust after anyone else. If you are that person that is lusting then you need to try to stop. you can't control your feelings, but you can definitely control what you do with them or how you develop those thoughts. if you ever find ur self lusting after someone else, try to change the subject in ur mind and do not think any deeper about lust. Lust is very sinful and leads to terrible relationships. Try your best to reverse this feeling (if you are not the luster then tell whoever it is that you do not appreciate it and it is wrong and kinda creeps u out or however u feel about it)