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When a guy tells me he loves me.. how do i know if he really means it?

we have been talking for about a month and a half and hanging out.. and he was the first to say it

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How soon did he say it? and what were you guys doing?

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We haven't done anything major just hang out
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I doubt it... especially since you haven't done anything major. When most guys are really in love they have a hard time saying so easily. The emotion is really strong. Watch out and don't give in too easily.
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Sorry, let me rephrase that, it was a little confusing. Some guys have a harder time saying I love you when it's true because the emotion is really strong and they even question it themselves.
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yeah... but i dont know if i feel the same back.. i think its a bit early dont you??
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sorry to but in but it probably is too early....watch out maybe's he's just trying to get into your pants or something...
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Very early... If you aren't feeling the same thing. Don't play into it. Just proceed as usual. If he's putting more pressure on you, he's probably after something.
If you're embarrassed to do things in front of him, but not embarrassed to do those same things with your friends- don't you think the bond with your friends is deeper? and they don't even tell you I love you by month one of your friendship.

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yeah i believe my bond is wayyyy deeper than with him... like i can joke around with them but most of the time he would feel offended or something... he takes things tooo seriously and is quite over protective....
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"Actions speak louder than words"

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Umm wrong wording. Silence speaks louder than words.
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You test him. Consistency, honesty and integrity

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every time i see your answers i want to cry..
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HEYYYYYYYYYY, answer
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sorr we're in a meeting
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Just stare into his eyes when he says it and if you feel something deep than he means it.

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It's only been a month, awfully early to be using the L word. Give it 6 months and see what comes of it.

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Have you ever heard the expression "Actions speak louder than words" ... Words are a fickle and untrustworthy source of information and truth. When someone professes their love, it's how they act and how they treat you that is truly the best way to become convinced that they are not just 'yanking your chain'.

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A month? Even if he thinks he means it, its still infatuation. In a bit and after he has held your hair when you throw up and he has been willing to sit through a movie he hates just because you really like it, then you can begin to think he might actually love you.

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Even most friends are willing to hold your hair for you when you throw up. It's love when you can go to the bathroom and he's there in front of the mirror fixing his hair and not care.
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Loving it!!
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he doesn't!!!!

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