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Is it bad to get back with your ex?

He cheated on me twice and he asked me out again...
i love him of course but i dont want to get hurt again...
what can i do?
Please help me....
~Ash

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Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.

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theres a reason the "ex" is there

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The same thing happened with me & my ex last year. I think you should move onto someone besides him because I wish I had done that.

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hell no hes gunna cheat again u need 2 kick that fool to the curb find some 1 thats will not cheat and be respectful 2 u

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^^ correct.

He wants to get back "with" you ... because he knows he can cheat on you.
If you take him back, he'll cheat on you again - because you allow him to.

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^^yup ive seen it happen to my ex gf.
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get back together, cheat on him, and then when he tries to end it make sure he realizes he did the same. it would make him grow closer. and make sure you tell him with a knowing look

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LOL I was thinking about doing that...
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Although revenge is sweet; momma always said 2 wrongs don't make a right :)
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yea but he did it twice and he did some other things... O____O
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alwysdrm
If your struggling with the fact that hes cheated on u and your worried he will again what would cheating on him prove?...
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that the world doesnt revolve around him
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if he cheated on you twice, he will do it again, so yes, yes its bad.

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Hey Gus! Just wanted to say Hi real quick!
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If someone needs to cheat what the point in a relationship? just wasting each others time causing unnecessary hurt.

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He cheated on you not once but twice. Do NOT get back with him. Forget about him and move on so you can be with someone who respects and loves you. This guy does NOT deserve another chance.

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He cheated on you TWICE. Honestly you shouldn't even got back with him the second time. Don't recycle your boyfriends. There's a guy out there that won't cheat on you, so don't waste your time on someone who will.

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Wow twice & your in love that's like filling a bottle of water with a hole at the end no matter how much you poor it'll just be a waste of your time the guys you females date it's just sad to see this happen to 99% of females but hey he's your man your life your choice sometimes you gotta get up & take your own advice you've been his side chick meaning he has no respect for you he did you wrong over & over again & you love him? ok what ever happened to self respect? pick your standards up & don't fall for no one less don't be blinded by looks or even a few words your a female correct females pretty much make this world go round & guys are the ones making it fall from there stupid choices you should know a lot better than that let one of my sisters ask this type of question the day they do will be the day I get 25 to life

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Wow! That is really great advise, im not even in that situation and yet I learned something... Thanks! :)
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Lol you welcome ;)
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Dont do it!!!!!!!

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I was going to say it could go either way until I opened the question.Have some strength and dignity and move on.

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do not pay attention to him for a while until he feel sorry and ask you to forgive him then tell him you will not forgive him if he does that again

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he asked me to forgive him and i have already....
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did he do that before too?
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yes...
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ok please forget him.he does not truly love you.sorry
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(Sniffle) (sniffle) :'(
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alwysdrm
Once you find a way to get over him you will feel so much better! :o
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i tried to get over him but i cant... :(
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Meet a new boy to keep your mind of him!!!
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What is an ex if you still love he/she

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he cheated on me and i had no choice i had to break up with him!
i still love him though! :(
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Im so sorry. Get a new guy

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its not that easy...
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alwysdrm
You'r just making it even harder on yourself. ;( I know its hard but you should really try to move on. How bout tellin him to give you like 3 months or something to 'figure things out' and see if he can not be with someone during that time? .... Also think about if you can truly be happy and COMPLETELY trust him. A relationship wont work without trust.
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Trust me...i know. My girlfriend cheated on me last summer then didnt tell me about it until 2 months later. She then broke up with me and went out with other guys. And to this day, i still love her. I know how you feel
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awwwww!
thts so sweet and sad
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Ya a lot of people say that. But its even worse cuz i lost most of my best friends cuz they are all even better friends with the girl, and soon after she broke up with me, they all left. It sucks. Ahahaha im like venting to a girl on Ask.com... this is pathetic
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its not pathetic...
its nice...
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Haha thank you:) and getting back to your question, if my ex suddenly said she loved me, i would absolutely go out with her again cuz my trust in her hasnt died down. Its still here:) so if you really do love this guy, then go for it
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Move on. You deserve someone that will treat you right. He cheated once and MAYBE he would feel sorry and not do it again. He cheated 2 xs I promise he won't think about doing it a 3rd. I personally wouldn't have taken him back after he cheated the first time..

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You know sometimes theres a reason why maybe because he is not the right guy for you who knows maybe theres this guy will respect you and love you as much as you love him so don't let your heart hurt again....

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Your Very Welcome...
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really u gotta ask , done it twice ur willing to let him dog u again. ur young ur whole life is ahead of u leave the dog in the pound n focus on u. ur a good lookn girl guys r a dime a dozen

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I wouldn't go there. If he's cheate on you I wouldn't get back together with him.

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hi! supp?
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The sky
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lol not what i meant. ''how are you?'' is what i meant
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Ik... Not much right now. Hbu?
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eh not much either. Question of the Day: Would you rather be a hamster or an elephant or a dolphin?
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Hamster
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why? just curious.(i wanna be a dolphin, even though i am reluctant to go swimming for personal reasons but just answer the q plz) :D
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Uhhhmm.... I dunno... An elephant is too fat and dolphins get eaten by sharks.... When hamsters run on a wheel or sleep all day... So it was kinda process of elimination.
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lol i have a hamster... and she likes to chew on plastic and run into walls. are you a cat or dog person?
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Dog person. I live on a farm so we got 3 dogs and 9 cats.
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woah, you do? that is so cool. i am more of a cat person, but then again i love most animals so, yeah. want to play a game? it is easy. i ask a question, you answer, i answer, and you ask a question, then it repeats over and over...wanna play the game?
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Sure
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Only if he lied to you before.

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O man, what makes you think he won't cheat on you again??
There are way too many fish in the sea to but up with a relationship like that..
Get over him, and move on now, before you get pregnant and your stuck forever....

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Don't get back with him it will show him ur so easy and if some girl comes to him and flirts he will easily cheat only knowing that u will forgive him.....again

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Mr_FadedGlory

Yeah, get back with him. What's the worse that could happen?

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Cheated on you twice and you still want more?!? WTF??!?? listen I'm sure there is atleast one other guy where you live that won't do that, my answer is NO you shouldn't go out with him again.... Unless you love finding out that your being cheated on then hey best of luck this go around (:

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say hell no there are better people out there

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call me (315)8265027

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will you go out me with i love you

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if he cheated on you twice.. im sorry but i know you must love him but if it risked you getting hurt like that* again i personally don't think its worth it :(

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no it's just dumb

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