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ok so I found out this guy liked me in the beginning of the year and ever since then I've had a crush on him, but then recently one of his friends strarted touching my hair (long story) saying it was soft. then he asked me about in in email. I tell him it's no big deal I didn't want the guy to touch my hair but I didn't really care. then he goes balistic saying I'm mean and not who he thought I was and stuff. I was so mad and confused. I don't know what's goin on. what do I do?

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Sounds like both guys are creeps... Keep away for your safety. It won't be squealing if you let a parent, older sister or brother in on the issue.

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Tell him: "I think we started on the wrong foot and I believe you misunderstood what you saw,but I really do like you."

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Yes but were not exactly dating.......... He doesn't know I know he looks me and I like him back
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There's really not much you can do if that's the case. Let it pass, it will only make it worse if you make a big deal out of it. Erase a bad memory with some good ones and ask him if he wants to hang out. He may bring it up then if it bothers him and you can clear up.
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Thanks that helped.
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Your welcome. I'm glad it did :)
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It sounds like he feels threatened. There may be more history between him and his friend that you know about; possibly his friend has behaved this way before toward his potential love interests. You've already told him how you feel about his friend touching your hair and commenting on it. If he won't accept your explanation, he is being unreasonable. Such behaviors rarely change. Do you really want to spend all of your time trying to talk him out of being angry because someone else paid you attention? He sounds very insecure, not to mention controlling and immature.

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In my opinion, the best thing to do is to try and meet him at an appropriate time and ask him to talk. Tell him how the situation was like and apologize since you didn't know it would make him jealous. Say you found the incident nothing serious and also ask him what really made him that angry. Communicate and find a way forward to your dilemma where you can both be free and happy.

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It sounds like he put his friend up to it as some kind of test, either that or that guy just felt like touching your hair. Either way he sounds both possesive and controlling, especially since you two aren't even dating and you should stay away from him cause this will only get worse

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