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TotesLegitHarper: 1 year ago

Need Some Help...especially coming from a girls point of view

Well, theres this girl I like and im not sure how to talk to her...she knows I like her and its kind of akward but I dont think she really minds...my real question though is what to say to her when theres an akward break in the conversation or maybe just at random. What do you girls dream about a guy saying to you?

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joanna1999: 1 year ago

Something like "you know your really pretty" or "you know i like u"

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bibs: 1 year ago

just ask her out

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TotesLegitHarper: 1 year ago

So not ready bro...lol

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bibs: 1 year ago

bro what do you mean

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WickedWriter19: 1 year ago

If you think you should ask her out, then go ahead. Try to make movement that display your affection: sit next to her, compliment her outfit, something like that. BTW: that's really cute! you seem really sweet good luck!

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TotesLegitHarper: 1 year ago

Thanks!:)

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WickedWriter19: 1 year ago

Awww you did a smiley face...i'm sorry im obsessed with you know i'm gonna follow you

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Cronicas: 1 year ago via iPhone

Yea. What she said. Or say some jokes!

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ZachA: 1 year ago

Ask her out

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ivey95: 1 year ago

i like it when they just say random stuff to make me laugh an when she says why did you say that just be like to make you laugh because i like your laugh haha

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kazzdaqueen: 1 year ago

I'd say get to know her better as a friend. don't ambush her with compliments and hints that you like her...just small occasional ones. If she doesn't bring it up and you start becoming more of a friend then anything...you're friendzoned. if you're close to her think of it this way...would you rather gain a relationship or lose a friend? best of luck dude.

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SarahSchaffner: 1 year ago

Whenever there is a lull in the conversation, pause for a moment and try to be comfortable just being in the presence of her. Then ask her an open ended question about herself. Not a "yes" or "no" question but one that engages her to open up. The conversation will naturally pick back up. Remember this simple rule: people love to talk about themselves more than any other subject. Ask her about her favorite place to vacation or what is her dream job, etc. Good luck, relax, and be yourself.

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Bronczekz: 1 year ago

Hit That SHEET Boyyy!!!

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TotesLegitHarper: 1 year ago

Lemme try tommorow, I'll get back to you on how she reacts!

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LilMissDolphins: 1 year ago

Ask her out-say : so what r u doing this weekend and if she says nothing than go for it- if she says shes doing -blank- than say oh yah i like doing tht too maybe we could do that together sometime- <3 good luck!

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musicmakesthegoround: 1 year ago

Just ask her out or say, "I wanted to tell you something. I really like you more than a friend. Whenever I'm around you, I feel happier and get butterflies." and give her something like flowers or something like that. Or at least, that's what I would like to happen ;)

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rubberduckie1121: 1 year ago

id want a guy to say, "hi! u wanna go get some chinese food later?" or "hi. i really like you. do you like me?"

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MIRABELLET0: 1 year ago

First, become friends with her. Stop thinking of her as "someone you love", think of her as a "kind friendly person you want to spend time with".
Then, every once in a while, compliment her ("you're hilarious and fun to be around"). Just be friendly - like you are around your guy friends,
F-R-I-E-N-D-L-Y. (TIP: don't convince her into thinking that she's "one of the guys" because she's not - she's still a female!) After you become close friends, feel free to flirt with her. Since you two have become close she wouldn't mind.
If you need more help....please don't hesitate to ask! I'm here because I wanna help you out!
~Mirabelle
P.S. If she doesn't want to become friends with you at all then it's extremely likely she doesn't waanna be your girlfriend, meaning if that happens then it's time to find someone else

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TotesLegitHarper: 1 year ago

Thanks Im pretty close with her but how should I flirt with her? Like pal around as kind of sounding like a joke, or Mr. Serious, and whichever one, what to say in flirt mode?

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MIRABELLET0: 1 year ago

Please don't think think of flirting as a) joking b) seriousness c) all of the above!
Flirting truly is just acting playfully endearing with extreme, strong intentions.
I think the following links will be helpful:
1)http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=XIiba_OGYU8
2)http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Hvd5Aeg7Bt8
3)http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=MCJPq0xRFe8

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Kastahi: 1 year ago

You said that she doesn't really mind... There is a chance that she doesn't like you, so just try to be nice. I would feel bad if a guy told me he liked me and I didn't like him back. The more casual you are the better, and try to joke around. Keep it light!

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barbjaz: 1 year ago via iPhone

Sarah has the correct answer

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asprings: 1 year ago

Once you accomplish figuring out your feelings for one another and letting each other know, it will be more comfortable having conversations, flirting, etc.

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jennifer108: 1 year ago | Last edited at 6:52PM on 3/18/2012

Ask her out. During an awkward silence, just maybe take get hand or ask her a personal question and act like you care. Hope I helped. :)

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k1ngcoolest: 1 year ago

Never take advice on girls from ask because they don't know ur age or the situation. Actually, girls give pretty bad advice in how to get girls in general, they think of fairy tales and men with great confidence and wgo

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