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if you like someone and he treats you very well is it best to stick with him or try and find true love (if it even exists)?

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If you like someone and he treats you very well it best to stick with him rather than going to look for love. This is because you already have a good thing going and should probably keep it that way.

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It sounds as if you are "settling".

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I believe you
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And as so,you need to follow your heart. And Yes, true love does exist.
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Let the guy go, he deserves to be with someone who truly loves him.

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I love him I'm not in love with him so thank you for your truthful answer. truly is the word that sticks with me
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Okay, I guess I should have said he deserves someone who is truly in love with him. If you stay with him, you'll end up being disappointed later and breaking his heart.
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You are so right. Thank you
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If you stick with someone you are unsure of,you are doing both of you an injustice,and you'll always wonder "what if".There is no substitute for true love.

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Exactly !
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I think true love eventually comes when two people treat each other really well and with respect. If you wish to give that up for someone you will lust for and feel love then he might treat you poorly in the future. Many girls give up great guys for someone cuter then regret it later. Its up to you, but I've been there and I will take the treating well and respect without thinking twice. It's not about lust or looks its about happiness and respect for each other. What else could true love be defined as than that?

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I really love your answer and appreciate your comment. I've made my decision now.
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Oh trust me, it does exist, don't ever settle for less, you'll never truly be happy unless you love this man like there's no other.

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