I think true love eventually comes when two people treat each other really well and with respect. If you wish to give that up for someone you will lust for and feel love then he might treat you poorly in the future. Many girls give up great guys for someone cuter then regret it later. Its up to you, but I've been there and I will take the treating well and respect without thinking twice. It's not about lust or looks its about happiness and respect for each other. What else could true love be defined as than that?