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What should I doo if I said yes to my friends, but my mom says she will think about it?!!

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Tell the truth to your friends and explain to your mother what you told tour friends and say you are sorry and will never take that course of action again.

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Idk if I can, it hurts me inside
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What part hurts?
Lying to your mother?
Telling your friends yes instead of doing the right thing of asking your mom first?
Oh, you mean disappoint your friends instead of your mother.

Seriously, kid, get some perspective and some priorities.
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try convincing your mom and if she says no the only thing to do is tell your friends you can't.

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But how about it's for Friday?
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then explain to your friends the situation and then wait for your mothers response.
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Just tell them there is some family issues and Mom is figuring it out and you honestly won't know til she says so, and don't bug her,......so we will have to see,...

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Well, let her thinkk aboutt it. Lol. If on that day she ends up saying NO. Then just say to her something like "really mom? If you knew the answer would b NO either way, then why'd you have me sitting hear thinking that your really thinking of it. Great, now I gotta tell my friends I can't go....even though I thought you were thinking about it, and at the end you would say yes, but I guessssss not" or something along those lines :) lol try to sound like "some1 feel sorry for me" [meaning you] lol

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Never do that again

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Tell your friends truth. Know won't be easy. Next time don't say yes till you heard yes. Make things easier for you. And maybe she'll say yes. Even explain to Mom you told friends yes thinking she would say yes. Consider lesson learned.

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Nicely put.
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When your friends ask you to do stuff keep this phrase handy - "I'd love to do that, but let me check with my parents first to make sure it's ok." Yes, it stinks to have to get permission, but at least that way you aren't stuck in the position of having to go back on your word.

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Tell your friend you jumped into their plans before asking your mom and that it is up to her if you can do it or not. Pretty simple really.

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The best thing is to be honest with both sides by telling them the truth about both situations so as not to look like a coward at the end of the day. If it is something important, try convincing your Mom and let her understand the importance of the occasion.

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