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I really like this girl and I want to ask her out, but I'm shy how do I tell her how I feel

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Do NOT tell her "how you feel".
(That is un-manly wuss behavior!)
Simply ask her out!!
Do NOT use words like "I was wondering if..." or "maybe, if you're not busy..."
Tell her what your plans are & that you want her to join you. Example: "Hey Mary, I got 2 tickets to the game on Friday, & I want you to come with me. It starts at 7, should I pick you up at 5:30, or 6?"

Do it like this! She doesn't get a yes-or-no question, her choices are 5:30 & 6. Learn this now while you are young!! You don't want to be an old geezer like your dad & asking for permission to go play golf.....

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Wow!! This tops every answer!! I never thought about it, but maybe this would help him(;
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You can first of all start by psyching yourself up and getting close to her. After getting close you can then approach her and ask her to join you for lunch and to make it funny you can also tell her how shy you actually are.

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Write her a Little Note .

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tell someone who cant keep a secret and hope for the best seriously do it worked for me a bunch of times this will work

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It may sound a little childish but writing down your feelings is always the best way to express yourself if your too shy, write a note telling her how you feel and give it to her or mail it to her to avoid confrontation

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*moment RUINED* LOL
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Sing it to her!

"Tell her about it
Tell her everything you feel
Give her every reason to accept
That you're for real

Tell her about it
Tell her all your crazy dreams
Let her know you need her
Let her know how much she means"

- Billy Joel (Tell Her About It)

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Ask her in a very casual way, like you would ask a friend. If sh says yes, the second time you ask it will be easier. If she says no, forget about it.

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Use a note and act all cool when you give it to her, like flip your hair(;

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First when she is alone, or over the phone, ask her and she will reply "yes" or "no".

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Write her a letter. Send her a card and a rose. Buy her a piece of jewelry that resembles love.

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