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I want to get revenge on my cousin's death but i cant think straight. is it right to do it? what should i do?

he had gotten shot in his head and died b/c some guy wanted his moped but he wouldnt give it up cuz he paid for it. now i want to get revenge on his killer but im so heartbroken i dont even know where to start. and my cousin never did anything wrong to anyone. it seemed like everyone loved him...until now.

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Well if you are planing to do something you already made your first mistake by telling the whole world by putting it on the Internet for everyone to see. I wouldn't do anything right now because u already would have been a suspect and with this a jury will definitely find u guilty.... I'm sorry for your loss

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thanks. i wont do anything stupid thanks so much for your help
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Your welcome. I know that the judicial system sucks but it's there for a reason I have had two friends murdered one over a coat and the other was just because he was white. And I know the pain your feeling and it never goes away but it does get easier stay strong
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It would not be advisable to take revenge on the person who shot your cousin. However, you may find justice for his death, by reporting the issue to the authorities. Get in touch with a lawyer to assist you in the process.

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you might get your revenge but then you would be the one in jail...and someone would want revenge on you and so on and so on....and like EaglesFan said you have already told the world so guess whom the cops are gonna come look for ?....even if you do nothing now and something happens to that person you will still be a ' person of interest ' to the cops and that is a can of worms....just let justice do it's thing.....and remember when this person goes to jail most likely they gonna be someones ' husband/wife ' in there....it can't be easy to deal with and I am so sorry for you and families loss but please don't do anything stupid

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thank you. i wont your answer was really helpful
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glad I could be of some small help....and you are welcome
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That makes no sense no.

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Your Cuz is still loved, But you getting Revenge will not bring your cuz back nor claim justice. Im sure your cuz would like for you to continue to live your life and live it to the fullest. And the other guy is a murderer.. Get the police involved im sure THEN justice will be served..

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good points also
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Police, jail, time. That's revenge.

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I am so sorry for you and your family. Please reconsider. Don't put your family through more grief. My father in law was a cab driver. Two crack heads beat him to death for $50. My husband initially felt the same way. Eventually they were found and are serving life sentences. Justice prevailed. I hope the same happens for you.

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We ALL feel like that when we lose someone in such a terrible, useless way, but what good would it do YOUR family to come to see YOU in prison every month for the next 30 years or so? Let the legal system deal with this-its out of your hands now. Plus, as others have said, if anything happens to his killer YOU will be the 1st one to be looked at by the cops cos of your entry in Ask. I'm sorry that you lost someone you love, but in this world, it happens all too often. Be there for those who loved him & who love you-don't waste your life in prison cos of "revenge"......

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