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This chick that I'm dealing with is 34 but acts like a 13 yr old any suggestion ladies?

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Potatoes. Drop her like a sack of potatoes. If it's taken her 34 years to act 13, you'll be in misery for the rest of your life. Cut the strings now

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lol
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Lol...
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Good answer!
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For once I agree with you Nwarguy. Green for you.
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Just this once!? Sad day
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Dump her? I don't know.

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If you dont know...dont give him an answer...he is in crisis man!
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Dude I did answer! He is not that much in crisis so u need to calm down
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I shouldn't have used the "!" mark..it confused you with me being angry towards you. I apologize if I upset you in any way. You were trying to help...and even though you failed..the point is you tried. That is admirable and I was out of place using an "!" at the end of my comment.
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I did not fail... just forget it. Goodbye!
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Dude I apologized..calmente!
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I am calm....
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As am I...as am I
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Totally. Drop her (thanks nwarguy)

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Dump her.

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Ditch her...

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HayHay1616
Hey
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hey sorry about that :-)
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HayHay1616
It's okay
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I don't really mind people seeing us here...do you?...
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HayHay1616
No. What bothered me was him thinking that we had a baby
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ohh okay...yea...wasn't really thinking of that...hey babe? how you feeling today? :-)
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HayHay1616
I'm feeling okay
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love you babe
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HayHay1616
Love you too
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Anything new that happened to you today? :-)
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HayHay1616
Nope. Just babysat longer. He just went home
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Babe we're gonna have another meeting in 20....Hmm...so? you got a dvd for the movie i told you about ? :-)
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HayHay1616
Okay...... No. I haven't been able to get out the house yet
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How's mom? :-)
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HayHay1616
She's been sleeping all day
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Babe do you think you're mom would understand us....if ever?...I mean, you think she'd give us an okay?
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HayHay1616
I really don't know
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Have a question babe
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HayHay1616
Hmm?
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If you're mom tells you to stay away from me...will you?
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HayHay1616
I don't think she'll say that
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hey babe
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HayHay1616
hey
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what's up? we just had pizza in the meeting haha...what you doing?
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HayHay1616
Cool... I'm about to clean the house in a little bit
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Okay babe hit me back when you're done....miss you :-)
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HayHay1616
I'm not going to yet hun
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oh okay?so? what you wanna talk about?
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HayHay1616
Whatever you want to talk about
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hmm...s-e-x?
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ew.. love! sorry.. had to do it.. i'll leave you two alone now
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sorry just kidding babe :-)
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HayHay1616
Ha. Wow. Butt in a random conversation
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this is kinda bugging me babe all day....let's move on to another Q of mine
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HayHay1616
ok
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answer another one babe
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not that one
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the one who ask commented on it already
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HayHay1616
k
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HayHay1616
Looks like you have a follower
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hmm....yea this is getting hard.....she's a friend of mine too..that snookie
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HayHay1616
Okay
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answer another one babe...sorry
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HayHay1616
Ok
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Ditch the girl

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Miss_Extraordinary

If she's 34 and acts like a 13 yr old she's immature and you need to find a stable woman

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I think, she's making a reason to drop you.. I guess, cut the string attached between two of you.

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I kinda figured that but I tell her all the time and she just keeps going. I'm 24 yrs old and not beat we had an argument and she said she was done and the next morning she was calling trying to be nice I don't even call anymore but it's consistent nagging
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Doubtful. She is probably an emotional cripple.
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Tell her that what's the problem why you acting like weird. Be the man!
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I do all the time she always Tryna switch the focus I told her I'm not beat but she keeps on coming
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Tell her parents about her or better to observer her for couples of days maybe she's doing drama thing to keep off with you for reasons. Or you can talk some Psychiatrist about it for some tips regarding with her behaviors. Unless you help her though.
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That sounds like a plan
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Whatever you do take it natural dude. Be the man and be yourself.
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Talk to her don't dump her till you know why maybe something happened what if she really likes you and doesn't know how to act don't be quick to judge there has to be a good reason.. But if the answer is stupid dump her immediately
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Oh I will but I think it's the way her exes did her dirty and she's Tryna take it out on me but I told her ur only pushing me away
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kittygurl4646

Find. Someone better!! So dump her like a dump truck!!

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Since when are 34 year old females called "Chick"? maybe she's acting 13 for a reason if there is no reason then it's best you find yourself a new women

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I dont think shes gonna mature anytime soon...Being that shes already 34... Think about that, maybe you can reach a decision!

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Thanks kinda figured that
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youre very welcome!
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Kill her with kindness.

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If she hasn't matured by the time she's 34, she's not going to. Un-hitch your wagon from her star before it explodes!

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Dump her.

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Just cuz you get old doesnt mean you have to grow up :)

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congrats ray2012 u just found an excuse to dump that chick...

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its good to have an imagination- i am 14 (almost) and it is either an imagination or no imagination at all - as boring as a bottle of beer

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JonnyDoe

You seeing my wife? She is 34 and acts like a 13 year old. But she has reasons for it. Not acceptable reasons, but I know why she is so immature. Bad upbringing. Bad boyfriends. Everyone in her life before me messed her up bad, and I inherited her emotional problems. I can tell you one thing: YOU CANNOT FIX HER! SHE MOST LIKELY WILL NOT CHANGE! And because of that, leave her. Run. Sorry dude, but you gotta do it. When it comes to relationships, demand the best or you WILL regret it as I do.

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Ha ha ha, I like the first answer,very true. Yes, doesn't sound like your potential dream mariage woman would behave like this.)

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Just ask her to act her age.

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I wouldnt put up with that... Let the dumping begin!!

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Well, you can try to drop hints about what you think of her or tell her directly about how you feel, but if you really can't take it any longer, dump her.

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LISAMARI13

drop her an find a real women you don't have to deal with that

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