If you've only been with the boyfriend a short time, don't feel bad about it and don't put guilt on your boyfriend. Just send her a wedding card and maybe a small token gift and wish her much happiness.
How long have you been dating him, and how well do you know her and the family? Is he standing up in the wedding, usually the girlfriend wouldn't get an invitation separately, the brother would receive one that stated " .... " And guest" of his choice, so he could bring whomever. Is she purposely excluding you ? Maybe it's a small group of family, or they can't afford extra. Need more detail.
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Last edited at 11:57AM on 3/28/2012
Did you ask her that you didn't get an invitation, or did you already ask and she said she didn't want you there? It'd be good with clearing the air with her, but if she purposely didn't invite you, it shouldn't bother you if you're not that close to her (as said by Indigenous_Genius) -- but if you are, I'd feel like I wasn't invited to my best friend's wedding. :( ...Sorry, was I confusing with my use of differing points of views?