You realize that every human is imperfect, and because of that, that we all really walk our lives alone, regardless of our relationships. No other person can be fully trusted, or relied upon to get you through. Nobody can fulfill your inner emotional needs except yourself.
Get back on the horse again, there's another girl right around the corner. Usually, your thoughts of an ex aren't realistic. It's a wish relationship. she's the 1 for you, your soul mate, you'll never love again. Everyone at 1 time or another feels that way, life's over, she was the greatest, I'll never get into a serious relationship again. It's all BS. If you sit down & really think about the relationship, you'll see that it was never as great as you wanted to believe it was. As time passes the reality settles in & you realize she wasn't the 1 & only. There's nothing wrong with having feelings about an ex, as long as it doesn't interfere with your life, or future relationships
Find things to take your mind off of the breakup. Be active, do new things, try not to do the same old thing. Meet new people, if you're not working, get a job (at least look for one). Anything to distract yourself.
It takes time. And sometimes you have to give Time some Time. Another love may come your way; I hope so. Go out and be kind and helpful to others. That is one of the best solutions when one has the blues. Most of all, be true and good to yourself.
I have had many heart breaks and am currently going through the hardest one of my life. I do know, that there are other fish in the sea. And one thing I am currently doing is focusing on me, making myself better for no other reason than ME. Keeping busy by finding Hobbies and being around loved ones helps too. You can and will Make it through this. Hang in there. If your ex is willing to leave, then there is someone else better for you in the end!
You dont. You remember the good stuff if you remember fondly. But you find some one else to interest you or you stay alone for a while and figure out your own mind. After which you try again with some one new. Dont look for some one and you'll find them.
you can never quite get over a break up because unless you didn't really like them in the first place but no matter what you may always have feelings for them whether you still have feelings for them or as a friend way there could always be something there. Don't give up don't stop trying just think about things this way everyone finds their true love that not might be now but it could be at anytime. Love may seem like something cruel and unfair now but in the end love will always have a sweet reward of you finding your true love.
1 year ago
Last edited at 3:10PM on 3/29/2012
sometimes you don't, but it'll take time, and if you can avoid being around her or her friends. Out of site, out of mind they say. Find a couple new interests to keep you busy, working helps, it helps to keeps busy as much as you can and then you won't have too much time to dwell and after some times passes hopefully you've forgotten about her. Or also it may help to think of all the bad stuff if there is any, or bad times like and maybe you'll see you deserve better, you never know, you gotta try! good luck!
Think of all the bad things that she used to do to you! The angrier and the more dissapointed you are, the faster you will move on to the next one. she is not the only girl on the planet you know! Give it some time, and go be a guy for a while!!!
well thats a good question..sometimes you cant until you find someone new...if you really loved or liked that person no one exspects you to get over her right away and if you try moving on and shes all you can still think about maybe you wernt ment to get over her..i hope i helped all i could :)
Everything takes time. In the meantime remember that you can live without that person. Try practicing meditation or yoga to focus on yourself which is what really matters. I registered myself for some classes to take my head away from the love one when that happened to me a long time ago. God luck and love yourself.
1 year ago
Last edited at 10:14AM on 4/2/2012
well, im not sure. i know this much. when my bf broke up with me it was all i could do not to cry. but youll get over it. its just a matter of time. involve yourself into activities and go have fun. soon youll be like whatsherfaces name? i dont remember her
I'm not sure this is gonna be the best answer because I am a girl but how i get over guys is i go back and cherish the memories i had with them, then become so sad im numb, then try to act normal, go out with my friends and stuff and slowly i'll start feeling again, then i let myself fall for someone else and being without them isnt as painful, you can never truly get over someone because love never dies but you can get pretty damn close