I know how you feel. My girlfriend of a year just broke up with me two weeks ago and said she needed a "break" for a month to relax. What I did to help me get over her was to hang out with friends. Get out and have a good time. Your friends will always have your back. The worst is sitting around and grieving. It only makes things worse because you constantly have your mind set on the girl. Just do things that will distract you from thinking about her. Also, try not to have any form of commutation with her. I know its hard when she crosses your mind and you just want to text her or call her. Don't do it. It will make things harder for you in the long run. Let her be and focus on ways to distract yourself. When you feel like the time is right to talk to her go for it but give it a little while. Don't dwell on her either. She might have been the best thing that ever happened to you but there is always some else out there for you. Don't give up.
It's going to take time obviously. Don't go to another girl right away because one that shows that you didn't care about your seven month relationship at all and two that would pretty much be a rebound girl. Give it time and in time maybe you'll realize all you needed was a break and want back with the girl.
2 years ago
Last edited at 8:29PM on 6/2/2011
Change is never easy, first ask yourself are you ready to get over this relationship? Allow yourself time to reflect on the time you spent together and what you learned about yourself. Then little by little you will start to pick up the positive pieces and move forward. You can not change the pasted but you do have a say in not repeating the same situations in the future. Happiness comes from you not someone else, they only add to it. Step back take a breathe and be yourself.
Well the question you should ask yourself instead of us is why did you break up with her? But if you dont want to say then I will answer your question. You should hang out with other girls like close friends or hang at the mall with your friends and see if you can find a girl you like....