ask them how would they feel if their mother died? and if they were constantly made fun of for losing someone they love? it wouldn't feel so good would it? stand up to them, kill them with kindness. you're strong.
I am so sorry for your loss. I can hardly believe the sheer cruelty in people sometimes...to cause pain to someone who is grieving such a huge loss...I'd kinda like to collect all of them, put them in my trailer, and...well...I shouldn't say. Please take FreudianSlip's advice and talk with a counselor at school. She's a very wise lady who honestly is qualified to give the best answer. Once again, I am so sorry and I hope things will work out.
OMGoodness that is horrible!!! you need to talk to the counselor or principal! That should not be happening. You also need to tell your dad or family members they might be able to help. I am so sorry you lost your mom. I hope you find help soon!
I'm sorry about your mom Maria.Tell the principle if it continues. Personally I would take into consideration what type of person would be so heartless as to make fun of someone who lost a parent. It might not be worth doing anything but ignoring the pathetic ignorance. Some people have no heart or soul.
That's rude of them...there VERY immature people. I think you should just ignore them and keep your head held high. And I'm SO sorry to hear this has happened...my heart goes out to you and your family. That's something very hard to overcome. But you will be able to do it!! :) I have faith in you!!! <3
That is horrible. I am so sorry this is happening. I think you should talk to someone about this. The school counselor, the principal or a teacher. These kids should not be allowed to treat someone like this. My heart truly goes out to you.
I am so sorry. I can't imagine what you are going through losing her at such a young age. My husband lost his dad at about your age, and I know it was terribly difficult for him. It doesn't help any, but one of the reasons that the others are making fun of you is in an attempt to reassure themselves that such a tragedy could never happen to them. If you can remember that, maybe you can ignore them or even feel a bit sorry for them. They have a lot of maturing to do, and someday they will need the compassion that they are denying you. You are in my prayers. Hugs...
Wait a minute they make fun of you because your mother passed away??? They are pure JERKS!!! If I'am at your school I'll give them such a punching!!! Just remember you're better than them :) Just ignore them :) Have a nice day :)
People that are that ignorant, dont deserve your time...Refuse to allow them to control your feelings...You keep your head up, and time will heal your pain, just remember you are blessed for having her when you did. And dont let them interfere with that.It is always good to talk about your pain, but never allow it to control you. Best wishes.
This is terrible when my friends baby brother died everyone was super supportive and tried to make my friend feel better and we made her lots of cards i dont understand why people at your school would do that to you but go tell an Adult i promise you its the best thing to do
I am so sorry honey! I do agree with what has been said about the guidance counselor. She or he is there for a reason....to help kids...kids like you! Most schools have anti bullying policy. You HAVE to tell someone however.Just remember these people don't feel good about themselves so they decide to pick on you to make themselves feel better. Does your dad know? He can go with you to talk to the principal. This behavior should NOT be tolerated. I'll pray for you.
you can talk to someone who under stands how you feel or you can just not talk to that person anymore and then tell your mom what happened and see what she says because you should not worry about what other people thank about you because that same thing happened to me but i don`t let it bother me
That just makes me madder then a mother heffer!!!! I'm sorry that has to happen to you. I know if i were there that would have never happened! The best thing for you to do is ignore it, keep you head high, tell the principal or school consular. Just so horrible!!! just please don't let it get to you. Please!! it makes me feel sad. please be happy. :D
That is just horrible, and I am so very sorry about your loss. If you want, you should tell a adult you know and trust and tell them about why they are making fun of you and who they are. They will get in loads of trouble most likely, and you won't be made fun of.
My heart goes out to you and your family. I myself am working through the loss of loved ones. Ignorance and fear breed cruel, hurtful people. Small people always try to belittle others. Stick with the positive, compassionate, good kids. There will always be negative, mean people in your life. What comes around goes around. They will get what they deserve. Stick with the winners. I wish serenity and happiness to you.
Report them to your principal and tell your Father,siblings and friends. My mum just died too and even though she was very old is still sad. If anyone made fun of me at the moment I'd get very upset too. Make sure your friends are with you as much as possible, they'll stick up for you. And deservedly make the bullies appear pathetic. They are more at loss than you, just morons forever. Good luck.
My grandma recently passed so I really feel your pain. People suck. If you have just one good friend to talk with, try that. Most people are probably acting that way because it makes them uncomfortable thinking about their own mortality or they don't know what to say so they just come up with a snide remark. Did I mention that people suck? I'd rather talk to my dogs!
Don't let it bother you my mom died 3 months ago and never told anybody tell i told and everybody made fun of me and when they did i just held my head up and knowing my mom is watching me and is proud of me
Ignore them but don't let them bother you. They are such @$$ holes to make fun of you after you just had a horrible experience of the person who gave birth to you dying. Tell the teachers and principles. If they keep this on just tell them how would they like it if their mother had died. They might say the wouldn't give a shit but really deep in their hearts they would be sobbing on the floor like a child.
I'm a lot older than you dear and I just lost my mother in January so I know how you feel. Just remember if God leads you to it, He will also lead you through it. Be strong and remember I'm praying for you! God speed to you!
I can't believe that anyone could be so cruel. You need to speak with your school counselor or even your school nurse. You need a kind, friendly adult in your life, sweetheart. Please talk to someone asap. I am so sorry that kids today are so intentionally cruel and hateful. You just be as strong as you can, remember how much your mother loved you, and find someone you can talk to. I will keep you in my prayers. God bless you.
Dear, you don't worry.You please think that your mother is always with you and this will give you the inspiration to go forward.Don't let your ears to those people who tries to make you fun and say to those people that my mom is always in my mind and share your feelings to (sad/good) to your father.
When these miserable people make fun of such a tragic event in your life, they are showing their true selves. People who are happy don't try to make others feel bad. These people try to make you feel bad because their lives are so wretched and they feel bad. Pity them and forgive them. They are truly lost, alone and have no one to help them. When you can forgive others, it removes the burden of hurt from your heart and sets you free.