Buy the book, "What to expect when you are expecting." Then buy, "What to expect in the first year." They are inexpensive and are the best books to help first time moms and dads understand what is going on.
if everything goes right, ur 1st birth could be a few hours spent in the hospital. u will be given dulcolax or laxative so u can use the bathroom, so that way u dont do #2 on the bed while pushing out the baby. Pack ur bags now, so u have a clear mind and wont forget anything. U will be in the hospital for about 3 days. U will not come out pre-pregnancy size, bring joggers or sweat pants (as if u were still 6 months pregnant). Bring (a small, travel size bottle) ur favorite shampoo, conditioner, bodywash and a hair clip so u can feel fresh after being in the hospital bed. Good luck.