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I'm worried about getting married what should I do

I love him so much and I don't want to mess things up he still gives me butterflys

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Consider every aspect of your relationship together: the good, the bad, the tolerable and the unbearable. If the good outweighs the bad, you're on your way to marriagehood!!! If not, go fishing...lol

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Everyone is a little worried about getting married, but dont worry, if he is still nice enough to give you butterflies now a ring on his finger wont change that. Sit down together and watch the movie Fireproof. You will enjoy it and get some good ideas for marriage.

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Well tell him or her that and discuss it

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It's normal what your feeling. It's a simple case of the jitters, better known as "cold feet". Take a deep breath and relax. :-). Your just anxious. And when your special day comes...you'll be just fine, I am sure of it. But do talk to your Fiance about your feelings, share with him. He just may be feeling some of what you are too. :-) I wish you both the happiest of future together. Take care, Sandra

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Don't go though with it, it could be the biggest mistake of your life, just saying

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Not the greatest answer ..... Just saying !!!!!!! She just said her fianc gives her butterflies still!!!!!! that's a good thing
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well you're just excited..! conqratss thoo..!

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You should just try not to think about it for a while so you can enjoy yourself for a little bit and then you won't be so stressed out. Then when the time to get married comes closer and you are
starting to think about getting married a lot more then you were you can worry about it for a few days. And before you know it you will be married and happy:)

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I think everyone gets a little nervous about getting married.

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It's called "cold feet" and it's normal!

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Keep cool and pray

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Do not do it. Wait until you are absolutely ready. Maybe he is not the one for you.

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You have cold feet, don't worry its a natural thing to happen. Just think positive thoughts and breathe.

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Marry him! That's what you should do! If he still gives you butterflies and takes your breath away... It's rare to find that nowadays.. I'm a girl and I'm not finding love.. Hold on to it and be smart about it ... You'll be more than fine

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Don't get married! If you are worried, your logic part of your brain is telling you to stop and make a new life for yourself.

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Love is not selfish. Love does not boast. So basically if you love them then you will want to please. Ask God for advice and he will come through

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Second thoughts before marriage is pretty common and it is the part where you both reflect as a couple how things are going to work. It is normally a crucial point where you have to listen to your gut and be sure that is the person you are willing to spend the rest of your life with. So my advice is to sit down and get to know your spouse and device plans for the future and how you are willing to tackle issues together as a couple.

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