Everyone is a little worried about getting married, but dont worry, if he is still nice enough to give you butterflies now a ring on his finger wont change that. Sit down together and watch the movie Fireproof. You will enjoy it and get some good ideas for marriage.
It's normal what your feeling. It's a simple case of the jitters, better known as "cold feet". Take a deep breath and relax. :-). Your just anxious. And when your special day comes...you'll be just fine, I am sure of it. But do talk to your Fiance about your feelings, share with him. He just may be feeling some of what you are too. :-) I wish you both the happiest of future together. Take care, Sandra
You should just try not to think about it for a while so you can enjoy yourself for a little bit and then you won't be so stressed out. Then when the time to get married comes closer and you are starting to think about getting married a lot more then you were you can worry about it for a few days. And before you know it you will be married and happy:)
Marry him! That's what you should do! If he still gives you butterflies and takes your breath away... It's rare to find that nowadays.. I'm a girl and I'm not finding love.. Hold on to it and be smart about it ... You'll be more than fine
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Last edited at 8:18PM on 6/3/2011
Second thoughts before marriage is pretty common and it is the part where you both reflect as a couple how things are going to work. It is normally a crucial point where you have to listen to your gut and be sure that is the person you are willing to spend the rest of your life with. So my advice is to sit down and get to know your spouse and device plans for the future and how you are willing to tackle issues together as a couple.