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I haven't seen my mom in nine years she Calls from different numbers and when she asks for money i send it should i give up

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The only problem I see is that you are driven by guilt and are a push over.

It is not appropriate for your mother to do what she is doing, and you need to stop enabling it.

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Ask her to pick it up in person so you can enjoy seeing her.

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Money can't buy love and my advice is to stop giving it.

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That doesn't sound right to me. I am a mom, I don't think a parent should be getting money from their child like that, unless it was like some emergency or unexpected type situation. But in that case should be paid back. Mom should be able to care for her own financial needs unless she is disabled in some way.

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You are enabling her. Stop it. Seek the help you need as you already know the answer to your question..... If you have to ask....

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She could be buying drugs or alcohol with it so I would not

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Yes if u keep helpin her ur inableing the situation shes just useing u wen she calls stop answering the phone stop sending her money wen she ask make her see that u will not support her usein u for money

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i dont have a mom i lived in a foster home and she called me and i refuse to talk to her so dont call answer or send her money

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No Mann well you do what's right

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