yes you are a minor and he can go to jail because he is an adult and you are 4+ years apart he can go to jail for rape, child molestation and sex abuse. lots of years in prison, YOU WILL END UP RUINING HIS LIFE. he wont be able to get a good job, he cant be around kids,if you like him, dump him NOW
2 years ago
Last edited at 10:22AM on 3/31/2012
ya and frankly i dont think you should be dating someone that is 13 years older than you but ya he can get arrested until your 18 he is only with you because he likes young girls and that's messed up really dump him now he is only with your for your body not for you you need to get rid of this guy
2 years ago
Last edited at 10:20AM on 3/31/2012
Yes. If you two have sex or someone claims you two have sex(such as your parents) he could get thrown in jail and convicted as having sex with a child. My uncle had this happen to him even though she was the one who wanted to. For simply dating, I think it is still legal though just be careful that your parents don't get mad at him. May be best for you to not date him till you turn 18. If he likes you enough, he'll wait. Also, if he gets arrested, his life will be a nightmare. Cops don't take kindly to them, regardless of your age. He'll get arrested for dumb little reasons, he won't be allowed near anyone under the age of eighteen, it will be extremely difficult for him to get a job and a place to stay and when realised from prison, they expect him to do that within a month or two or he goes back to prison. Please just wait till you are eighteen.
yes ..I'm sure ur parents wont approve ..why in the world would you date a man twice your age? seems he likes little girls ..the bad news is that if you end up with him your going to age with him and he will still be attracted to little girls think about it and run as fast as you can ..the man has mental problems I'm sorry ...
16 is the age of consent in most states, but if your parents don't approve, it's probably for good reason. Also, ask yourself why a man who is at the age where he should be starting a family and settling into his life, is interested in someone who is still in highschool and who won'tbe ready for those things for 10 years. He probably tells you how mature you are and fills your ears with flattery, but ask yourself why he must go to a teen and not to a woman his own age. Finally, really think about whether or not you would let your daughter date someone so much older.
The laws vary quite a bit depending on where you are. Statutory rape or even illegal sexual activity can get you both in hot water if you are under the age of 18. If you want to know more about the legal repercussions .. you have to research locally.
Having said that .. I'm sure your 30 yr old boyfriend knows all too well that he is risking his freedom and his future ... not to mention self respect.
Contributing to the delinquency of a minor can get him arrested, and statutory rape(which a 30-year-old man having sex with a 17-year-old girl can be considered) can get him a LONG prison sentence. Add to that, a lot of people would consider your boyfriend to be a pedophile. What are you thinking?
yes, he can but there is absolutely nothing wrong in loving him, even if he is 10-15 years older. just wait till your 18 then you'll be fine your parent's won't be able to do anything even if they disapprove. I know because right now my uncle and his wife have an age difference of 15 years and they are madly in love with each other and they have 4 kids.
let me be honest the fact that your dating a 30 year old is quite stupid. they are the kind of guys who just want sex and you may not see it now but it is wrong, you have to consult your parents as a minor.
2 years ago
Last edited at 12:42AM on 4/7/2012
Yes he can if your parents dont approve and if you are having sex then he can no matter what. Plus, most guys that date girls a lot younger are only looking for sex and like you for the way he can get away with things or use you. I know it seems like everyone on here is saying things like that but it is true. Men like to be dominant in a relationship and when the girl is young and naiive it is easy for them to take advantage and hold all of the control over you, and again, younger girls are easier to sweet talk and get sex from. And think about the future, if it lasted he's got like ten years on you, hes reaching mid life crisis age. hes had plenty of women in his life, passed the drinking and partying age and is more than likely "on his feet" or supporting himself and you are just starting out, you want someone that you can have all those experiences with for the first time, not someone whose gonna have it done or do it for you. You want to grow old with someone not have them grow old while your still young. Maybe its better off it you two were not together.
Yes, he can be charged with statutory rape for having sex with a minor. You must understand that this is not a healthy relationship. What in the world does a 30 year old man want with a 17 year old girl? I can think of only one thing. You need to consider the idea that he might be a pedophile who gets off on girls your age. You need to find the strength to end this relationship now--it's the best thing you could ever do for yourself and your future.
Let me ask you this, did God create Adam at age 33 and Eve at 16? If not, then please let him go, for his sake. He could face serious charges if your parents get upset at him and claim you're having sex, even if your not. Put it like this, would you date your dad?
It actually depends what state you are in. In Indiana, if you are sixteen you are of the age of consent and can therefore date/sleep with anyone sixteen or older. But I have no clue where you are so I can't say.
Of course what a creep dating a 17 year old and he is 30!!! He has some serious problems stay away!!!! 13 years is not an issue when you are a mature adult but you are 17 and have much to learn and need time to grow and mature. This is a dangerous situation this man needs some help.
of course ,,, what i saw in a 30 year old man,,think about it ,,you are 17 and u are not even legally eligible to take your decision ,,this issue is totally waying wrong,,,drop it ,find someone of your age