He wasn't man enough to take care of and provide for his children no matter how he felt about his wife. He got to have a party for the last six years while she got to raise the kids alone and pay the bills and some think his family doesn't deserve what's left? You can bet he has taken good care of himself the last six years while they did without him on every level. Not just financially. Hire a forensic accountant my dear. While you should not be vindictive, you should not allow this man to short change his children.