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so i said yes to go out with this guy...and we really liked each other (enough to do something) but anyway at school today i saw him making out with his ex-girlfriend. what should i do!? and ive known him for most of my life.

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Slap! his! sorry! cheater! face!!!!!!!!!!!!!!YOU DON'T DESERVE THAT!!! Kick his but girly

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haha thanks i will!
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Lol good he's a jerk face
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Break up

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well i want to do more then that!
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Tell it to him firm and clear. If he still don't listen then smack him and turn him into a woman
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Omg break up with him! He has no right to do that!!!!!!!!

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thank you! but still i want to do more
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Hmm. I see. If he kissed another girl, you really shouldn't :/ talk to him about it first before the beak up!
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kk thanks
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voc  bem-vindo!
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Break up...yes! But you need to tell him that you don't deserve him! Do the same! Find a better guy and make him jealous. Fight back, with a stronger army!!!

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sweet! thanks
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Dump his ass!

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yes!!
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Revenge , make out with a dude in front of his face and see how he likes it . Or just slap him

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i like the make out thing better
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Okay dookie. Let me know how it goes :~)
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No revenge is wrong. making out with another guy makes you a user too!
Do YOU want that lable slapped on you? I think not!
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I wouldn't believe me , I only joined this site to help people, and for a good laugh here and there . But this girl only likes revenge you see and there's no way I can convince here other wise. But I would never do this .
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Can you please explain to me your username , not 2 b nose-e. But it sounds depressing
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You know what they say 'karmas a bitch' ha i say get revenge(: hope this helps...:b

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Just don't jump to conclusions

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What the heck !!! Don't jump to conclusions?? He's making out with his ex what kind of excuse could he make?
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what's next? The old "she had something on her mouth so I helped her get it off"
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thats not what happened" he'll say "she kissed me!!!" then u kick him were he dosent wanna b kicked and say "thats not what happened!!!! my foot kicked u!!!"
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"don't jump to conclusions" hate 2 b captian obvious but he cheated on her that's not jumping 2 conclusions that's stating a fact!
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you tellthem girl
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if you are a guy then you must not see that this is something only a girl can awnser so f### off and stop being stupid
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I only answered this question because i saw your name. I am disappointed. I thought you had a good head on your shoulders. I'm not sure why you want to be a sexual third wheel for a guy who obviously hasn't broken up with his girlfriend. Doesn't it bother you to think of him doing "it" with this gal and then repeating the same with you. I don't get it. If you don't mind being a piece of fluff on the side, and having it get around at school, go for it. Just understand you are setting yourself up for failure. I'm hoping you come to your senses and wait for the nice guy you deserve. Good luck, sweetie.

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gr8 advice
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awesome advice!
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Thanks. She didn't take it though and just asked another question about him today.
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w.o.w.
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Throw a pie at his face or somthing like that then say your through

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When you are talking to him, remind him of the old saying "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned." Then walk away. Let him know you saw him making out with his ex, and then dump him, and remind him of that glorious saying.

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dump his butt!!!!! He obviously does NOT deserve a girl like you:)

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Break up with him!!! but first make out with someone and set it up so he finds you doing it and when he's like what the !$&@!& be like ' karma is a b*****'

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so break up with him if he can make out with his ex obviously your too good for him leave him! theres better guys out there for you!

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tell everybody what he did make sure EVERYBODY knows, and then dump him
makes him look like a complete loser

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Please use my idea. My friend has a shirt that says "How to Drop a Boyfriend" with a pic of a girl punching him in the face =D

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kick him

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Say I saw u the other day kissing ur ex girl.....then he probably say oh...or you did that was my twin or you did
Then u say dude n walk away

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Stay sad for a while. eventually he'll notice and give in. no parent wants to be the cause of their childs pain

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lol omg sooo sorry, that was meant for another Q
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lol i hate when i do tht
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BREAK UP!!!hes a jerk!but before you do get the whole story first and ask whats going on.

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i think you should talk to him.. then his girlfriend so you get both stories and see what they say and then make your decision! :) hope that helps!

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ok so let me get this straight, he asked you out, you guys did something, and then he's making out with his ex. you're getting played. break up with him. he's just one of those guys that is only in a relationship so that he can get something out of it. that's not fair to you and you deserve better than that. find someone who will treat you right. trust me there out there.

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If I were you, I would act like you don't know anything for a while (couple weeks). Then invite hom over to your place and cook him dinner. Poor water on his head and say "This is for lying to me!" Then, pie him and say "That's for making out with your ex!" Then stomp on his feet and throw him out and yell "That's for being a jerk!"

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i would totally do that!! :)
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lol iif this ever happens to mee i will so do that!
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do it
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Let's face reality here, YOU were a practice run for his real girlfriend.
Forget it and move on. Better write this happening in your day planner for future reference. YOU could be pregnant?

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He obviously doesn't give a shit about you. You're being used, I'm sorry to admit. Just tell him you saw him kissing his ex girlfriend, and now you want to break up. You can't keep being his "girlfriend" Because that's a HORRIBLE "relationship" So dump his ass and be proud of it! Oh, and tell that so called "ex" that he had sex with you. He has absolutely no right to have sex with you and then go making out with his OTHER girlfriend. Slap him as hard as you can.

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"thats not what happened" he'll say "she kissed me!!!" then u kick him were he dosent wanna b kicked and say "thats not what happened!!!! my foot kicked u!!!" then staare at him evilly 4 the whole damn day

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break up... ignore him ad make him regret cheating on you.

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wow y would you ask that BREAK UP

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dont jump to conclusions, ask him first then kick his...nver mind but ya

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are you crazy hes cheating on her
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Wow umm I would kick his and her ass... and then dump him and date his best friend lol

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Break up he doesn't deserve you! And then make out with his friend.

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Kick him in the nads!!!

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Get your other best friend guys to beat him up and dump him when he needs the comfort and then tell every body in school what he did that way people dont feel sorry that he was beaten up.

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I completely agree with nattdawg u need to talk to both people and get both sides of the stories and then decide what you want to believe by just having some alone time y just not talking to anyone I know that this sounds like you're going have to suffer too but this really works and if your friends orr him ask you whats been going on lately ( after you're done thinking, give urself a few days so you dont rush and can actually think this all through) just tell them all that you just needed time to think something thorough . If they your friends ask just say something private and if he asks then just come out and say you were thinking about which persons story you wanted to believe.

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dump his sorry BUTT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Agree , high five !
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embarrass i'm then dump him

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break up

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Break up

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ask him out dear why is he actually doing this
i am sure this will work

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break up with a little spice of some revenge for example he gets a new girl friend one day you could go up to her and tell him all his little secrets or stuff little embarrassing photos of him
in everybodys locker!

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girl this is whatchu do,BOY ITS OVERR , I DONT GOT TIMME 4 LITTLE KID GAMES,ALL U WANTEED 2 DO IS HITT IT AND QUIT IT PS:FCK THAT NIGGA MOVE ON>LISTEN TO THIS SONG usheR BOO OR BURN

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this has to do with...........
murder

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Easy there killer
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dump him

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Break up with him. If he wasn't done with his ex girlfriend then he shouldn't have started dating u because what he doesn't know is that we will always find out one way or another.

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take his ass to the gates of hell and dump him then say you cheated on him and them kick his ass

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That's NOT OKAY. If he really likes you he wouldn't do that. Talk to him tell him "why are you making out with ??? if you asked me to go out?" Then if he doesn't stop cheating go out and flirt with another guy in his face (not literally).

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first of all you shoudl have waited till marrage and second of all you shoud tell him off

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did you break up with him yet?

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You don't need to talk to him, you don't need to get revenge. You need to refuse to give him the time of day. Break up with him, and move on. It's hard. I was cheated on, and you know what? My dumb ass kept going back. And you what happened then? His dumb ass kept cheating on me. Cheaters don't change.

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im not going to say i know its hard to have been cheated in because i do n know that feeling. But what i am going to say is you'll just have to learn to accept your reality you were lied to ! i know this sounds harsh but its true.& its sad that there are people out their in general! you just have to be strong and make better choices when it comes to picking guys it doesn't matter how long you've known them for. "faces we see ... hearts we don't know"

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talk to him about it first and see what he says if it sounds he dont care then break up asap

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dump him he has no rite to do that ...

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tell him that you know he did that and well then maybe break up with him and talk to him about it

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Break up with him and don't regret it, hun. Trust me, there are a lot of other guys out there that won't do that to you. Also, make sure you give him hell for what he did to you! But first, let him hear what you saw and make sure it wasn't a "my ex ran up and started making out with me" thing because some guys are just too horny to tell a girl no.
-Hope I helped!

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Break up with him or make up a plan for revenge

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i woodent dump him yet tell friends and kids in school that he cheated on you and tell all the girls so that don't date him so then you can go in front of the hole school and say you cheater and show a pic of the girl he kissed and show you kissing him show him those pics and he will be like :O lol hope it helps

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break up with him!!
omg i dont see why people do this! then make out with his best mate or something, that will really get his back up, start seeing(hanging around) with his mates, he will really hate that and feel really stupid for what he did to you!

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Honestly you should just dump I know you wouldn't want a guy like that and u deserve better

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easy...DUMP HIM NOW!!!

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dump his cheeting a$$

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Break up with him . sounds like he used you to get what he wanted but what u didnt know was he was getting some on the side as well.. ive been there it sucks

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break up with him if he is going cheat on u now he will cheat on u later down the road

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Break up with him he's cheating on you!!!
I don't know why guys do that, they're like really selfish!
When they have a pretty girl that's not enough they have to have another one.
(PS no offence to any of you guys)

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break up with him you deserve way better than a pig like him he played you

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