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Why do guys get nervous around girls?

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Because they don't have confidence


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Why not?
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Because I did not get a chance to get closer to her.
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:( im sorry
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no problem :)
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not all guys do...i dont when im around girls.....

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A lot of them do and it makes my confidence drop because it makes me think their nervous cause im doing something wrong
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oh u def not doing anything wrong...lol...its jus that sometimes we like a girl and jus to scared of that the girl would say.....
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neither do i

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REJECTION hurts like ****

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it does
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i have neva been rejected b4? lol
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Yeah it does :/
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im guessing your not getting that willow
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i hate it when i get rejected, it is the worst feeling in the world
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Sweetie I get rejected all the time believe it or not
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you do? ouch
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wow....who would reject a beautiful person like you?
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That's impossible..being that cute???(me guessing that really is your picture)
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hey smartness go comment on your own answer.
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xD *blushes* trust me looks don’t count for everything they just didn’t like the way I like to do things. I enjoy everybodys company and so certain people don’t like that about me
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sweetheart that is me so bite my a$$
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wow really? can i? haha :-) Well? the way you do things is what sets you apart from everyone. If they can't handle you.they don't deserve to be with such a lovely creature
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wtf
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Not to be like mean :/ sorry im trying not to be snappy I just hate when people do stuff like that
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stuff like what?
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y u girls being mean?? :(
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DONT ASk
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xD lol Aww sweet XD
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are you trying to piss her off?
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wats sweet?
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Don't change willow just be yourself. Someone will find you eventually and you guys will be a perfect match. Being that beautiful i'm sure you're gonna find one eventually :-)
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What? No whos being mean? :( don’t be mean guys :(
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go comment on your own answer smartness!
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nice one
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don't mind him willow
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tbh....with her looks she can find anybody...but she needs to use her heart to find the right one..who will like her for who she is and not for her looks....
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toothfairy's being mean tell me to go comment on my own answer....i dont want to....and besides i commented on this answer 1st.....b4 she did :(
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y r u being mean to me teeth_fairy? :(
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she's talking to me and you're butting in...that's not cool to do for someone who's never been rejected
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I try being nice to every body that’s why I don’t stick to one clique I enjoy everybodys company and leave him alone hun that’s wasn’t nice
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ur being nice Willow..ur fine but teeth_fairy isnt... :(
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i think everyones nice
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here
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omg be nice d@mnit
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lol....thanks Willow :)
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who are you talking to willow?
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I get rejected too!! It's not fun!!
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np hun
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hey wifey! :-)
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ok...
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Lmao xD me?
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Hey guys I g2g ill ttyl peace! :D luv yall
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Take it easy man
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she not a man..she a girl...lol
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im confused
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Lol I go by man, dude, and well whatever but lol thanks for stickin up fo me hun
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yeah I know. lol. I was talking to someone else and got a wrong window. XD

@willow, take care ;-)
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lol...oh ok....
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lol you 2 hun
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I Like Cheese
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oh and ur welcome Willow ...lol....
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hey hubby lol
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@beastteran do you like Gouda cheese??
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who?
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grow up mates!
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Because u bite lol

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biting?
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Hardy har har so funny xD
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just because sometimes the girl that they are around, they like, or that they just aren't comfortable around girls for some reason like love. i do occasionally

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you cant remmber how long probation
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Ur profile picture was a picture of a movie I forgot it's name. I have it.
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Not all guys get nervous. But some do when some pretty girls are around them and they don't have confidence. (sorry couldn't explain well) (=

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Its mk lol helps alil
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=) thats good
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Because we put women on pedestals and worship them like goddesses ... then, like Wayne and Garth, we drop to our knees and cry out "WE'RE NOT WORTHY!"

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well in all actuality it depends on how you were raised and what kind of person you are, are you shy? outspoken?....plus the attraction to the opposite sex always unleashes chemicals in the brain for example the"love at first sight* feeling...it'll be alright girls love confidence compassion and that stuff but don't over due it good luck

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Alot of times guy's get nervous and quite around the girl they like. Its just the way it is. Sometimes its because they don't know what to say or do. And/or don't want to do or say something bad that will hurt the girl that he admires, and lets face it, most guys are oblivious when they say something that actually hurts the person, and they don't realize it.

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thats explains alot :)
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Idk for other guys, but for me I get nervous around a specific girl. Because I have strong feelings for her I'm still trying to get to know her so I'm afraid I may screw up and do something stupid. I also don't want to say something to make her think well this guys bad news i don't want to hang out with him.

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that's true, same for me, around some specific girls
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Cause we're pretty and they think we're gonna turn them down.

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true but its cuz how u turn us down...lol
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yea 8D
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Depends on the girl some seem to good to be true confident smart funny pretty intelligent etc when a guy looks at you he sees all the best features in you & when he looks at himself he just points out his flaws thinking that girl is to good for them & there's no way it'll work out guys get nervous cause they aren't confident low self esteem a few insecurities just like females they get intimated & nervous on what to say or how to say it what to do & how to do it the same reasons a girl would get nervous around a guy either he's to cool/popular he looks to good & female couldn't picture a guy like that dating a girl like her it's all about self esteem this doesn't go out to everyone cause there's many people who are over confident have no confidence at all & people who except the fact that that's who they are & they'll deal with rejection here & there the ones who get nervous are the ones who have no confidence & low self esteem reason some people get like that is the way they were treated in the past in family/school/ or relationships they were disrespected so they wake up every morning feeling like crap that's why we encourage others just to make them feel better cause it's the right thing to do

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well let's just say that practical and theorical is 2 different things. It's not about confidence, it's just that when you stand at 2 inch from the girl you stand in AWE and can't seem to have your brain wired straight. (that's love right there).

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not me when i was in court nervous not around girls

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lol yeah wait whyd you go to court?
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hahaha i remember when i was in court, it is scary
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i was charged with misconduct, disrupting the education, and peace, and the las one was simulated...
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see my probation officer i stay on it for 6 or 7 month
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im still on probation, for how long, i cant remember
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you cant remember
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cause girls are different and if a guy says something wrong the girl can text every minute of the conversation and the guy thinks no one will ever talk to him no matter what well it happened to me anyway....

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i did but now im not you have to do it the first time

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not all guys do but for the guys who do, they probably like them so they get nervous they might embarrass themselves or they reject them(:

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I really could'nt say, but guy's start getting loud and they tell each other about a women they have spotted. and start
circling around in a indirect way itS like they are needing assurance from each other

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Here are 5 tips from a professional pick-up artist on overcoming shyness and approach anxiety. Great article related to this! http://themajikalmethod.com/welcome-to-the-majikal-method/tips-for-overcoming-approach-anxiety/

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