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bellachica95
bellachica95: 1 year ago

does anyone have any tips to feel more confident when talking to a guy in highschool?

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tap_out600: 1 year ago via iPhone | Last edited at 11:25PM on 6/6/2011

"Think" of him as any regular person, not as a person you like (that is if you like him). Keeping your feelings for him in mind. It's what I have done and it worked wonders for me. Good luck :)

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anizato
anizato: 1 year ago

Just be yourself. Be chill. No worries. Sit back n enjoy the ride of life (:

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syhathep: 1 year ago via iPhone

Be urself

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kjcts220
kjcts220: 1 year ago via iPhone

Make sure you feel good about yourself before talking n SMILE.
Talk about subjects you know well.
Look the guy straight in the eyes.
Speak clear n soft. You'll melt his heart every him!

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medic614
medic614: 1 year ago

Let me tell you something. It's a BIG world out there. Your school is a very, very, VERY small fraction of it. Think of this time in your life as practice for when you are older. Approach the situation as if the outcome doesn't matter, because in the long run, it doesn't. Be yourself. Relax. Have fun & just talk to him. You can do this. You talk to people all the time. He's no different. Good luck. (by the way, luck is where preparation meets opportunity, nothing more)

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keeroo
keeroo: 1 year ago

Fake confidence. If you do it long enough your brain starts to believe it and you will actually become more confidant.

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davescat
davescat: 1 year ago

To feel more confident when talking to a guy, try as much as you can to be yourself. Don't pretend to be what you are not and try to be cool and flow with the conversation.

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robbes: 1 year ago via iPhone

This is one of those questions that has no simple pat answer. It goes to the very complexity of your own psyche, and whatever strengths or problems lie within. Are you generally a confident person who has a decent idea about things you are adept at, as well as areas where your natural abilities are somewhat wanting? In other words do you know yourself and feel confident in your own skin? Now certainly we want people we fancy to fancy us. Sometimes this may be a daydream fantasy we wouldn't know what to do with were it to come true. Other times the object of our desire simply does not and probably never will ever think of us the same way we think of them. I've only touched on a few of the many facets of human interaction, so don't be discouraged; you need to be okay with yourself, and sometimes you may have to go' out on a limb and risk being humiliated. This is being human, and developing your own unique and confident character is your obligation in the crafting of a human being, yourself.

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r4tt
r4tt: 1 year ago

take a deep breath,but make sure its not to deep or he'll notice

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