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Should the guy i love make me choose him over my family?

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No way.
Boyfri-end, Girlfr-end, bestfri-end, fri-end.. All has an End to it... But familys forever. If your boyfriend wants you to choose between him and your family pick your family because if your boyfriend really dis love you.. He wouldn't make you choose in the first place.

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No person should EVER make you choose a side! If he can't get along with your family or vice versa, this should tell you something. Find a new one!

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No! That means he's goingvto be controlling. Kick him to the curb & leave him alone.

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no i dont care what the situation is thats just wrong. if ur family is getting in the way of ur relationship then there is something wrong with the relationship cuz if the relationship is a good one and strong then nothing not even family could mess it up

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No cuz if he really loves u he'll love u even if he hates your family and maybe a sit down with him and your family to see whats the problem.

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No. My boyfriend's family tried to make him choose between them or me (they don't like me), he told them quite a few choice words and then didn't speak to them for almost 2 years.
Ultimatums are bad news.

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No he should not, he he really loved you he would know family is the most important thing for all you know hes going to up and leave one day but your family will always be there for you .

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tru dat...... tru dat.
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No never people who give you ultimatums army worth having around

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No because if he truly loves u, he wouldn't make u choose

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No. no matter what happen, you cannot chose him over your family. You know sometimes people just want a proof that you can give them what they want because of knowing that we love them. Love is never selfish remember. You can show your love in other way but not by choosing him over your family.

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Absolutely not!! Is he jealous of your friends, too? Is he abusive? It sounds like a bad situation.

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