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Im in jr high (8th) and no girls like me. Im kinda depressed. The things is when i was in 5th i got a being annoying and cant get rid of it.

i just wanna get a good rep. i think in highschool i could try but i dont want to wait. what can i do?

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Almost every person is annoying at one point or another in their life. I've been told by many guys that I'm sometimes rather annoying but that doesn't get to me a whole lot because they are usually stuck up and trying to bring people down. Girls will like you no matter how annoying you are and if they don't like you only because your annoying then it's their lose because they are missing a great chance with a really cool guy.

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Thanks thats really helpful!
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No problem, just try to avoid the snobs cause that's all they do is say stuff to bring you down. If a girl really likes you she won't care how annoying you are. My boyfriends annoying (like unbelievably annoying) but its just one reason I like him so it shouldn't really matter. Hope it works out and you find someone!
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You can go visit a psychologist for counseling. He/she will help you get rid of that annoying feeling in you. They are qualified doctors who can read your mind, help you change your mind, and start living positively with others.

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I dont want my parents to no :/
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Well if u feel that bad about it, they should know. And hopefully they'll understand...
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Join a sport, join a club, find others like you, participate in stuff that will make you known to your fellow classmates(;

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I have tried, i joined soccer. I ended up quiting my favorite sport ):
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I have been in numerous sports, just a spoiler. Buck up, ol' chap, just make good guy friends. And while you're hanging out with them. Make their friends your friends, and so on. Once popular, acquire girlfriend(s). Also sports give muscles.

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Honestly, if you're a good, funny guy, girls will notice you. You shouldn't try and change who you are just to get the attention of some shallow (however attractive they may be) girls. In high school, everything seems to be about popularity and relationships and it's really not. The more secure you are in yourself, the more attractive you'll be now AND later. Respect yourself, be one of the good guys and realize you'll eventually find a keeper. :)

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Go find an activity you like. Anyway, no need for despair, it could be worse. I have no chance of a relationship (boyfriend) until maybe college. Anyway, you don't really need one to survive. And if you think you do, you should visit a shrink because that's unhealthy.

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