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How come guys dont like tomboys?

I hang out with mostly guys and just one girl everyday and I had a boyfriend who broke up with me because he said I dress like a dude and im disgusting. Holding worms and spiders around people isn't disgusting right? I also wear basketball or soccer shorts with a basic t-shirt... So why dont guys like girls like me?

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The guys don't want to feel like they are dating one of the guys! Try and dress up ever so offten and make your self pritty! I waer basketball shorts and tanks all the one but I dress up alot you want the guy to keep wondering not have the same thing every day! And there is nothing wrong with getting dirty but playin with bugs and spiters it's a total turn off! You can be a tomboy but be pritty at the same time! Trust me I do it every day! When you are the same everyday the guys get bord of you! Keep them wanting more! Make them wonder what ur going to be like the next time you see them! Make them wonder!

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Don't listen to her. Be yourself.
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Please don't tell her to be phony and to play games with boys. That's so sad. It also gives boys the wrong message. Like girls aren't valued unless they are alluring in a stereotypical way. Don't fall into the trap.
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It doesn't help to pretend
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thay dont want to feel like tere dating a guy..or they dont whant them to be more manleyer then them

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i think their not excepting you for you cuz your a tomboy n stuff or they jus want a girly girly that acts like a girl instead of a boy i guess

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Cause they're idiots. You sound like a fine person to me. If they aren't willing to accept you the way you are, you shouldn't be dating them. Don't worry, you'll find the right guy someday. In the meantime, don't listen to anyone who says you are wrong for being like that. Don't be afraid to be yourself, I find the best people like me best when I don't try to change.

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There will be plenty of real men who will think you are great. He was probably afraid of creepy critters and was too much of wimp to hang out with a girl who was braver than he was. Keep being the real you!

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Agreed!!!!!!
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Ah, forget about him! If he can't accept you for who you are, he doesn't deserve you and is not worth it! One day you'll find someone who likes you for who you are, he was just a bad apple in the barrel.

I agree with a lot of the answers here, or maybe the classic, he found someone else but needed an excuse to break up with you, so he played that card, (which is awful). Hang in there!

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It's a figure of speech
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We don't want you showing us up lol

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Aint that the truth lol
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I think they don't like Tomboys because they act like boys so they might feel gay in a kind of way

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Do you mean their manhood is threatened in some way?
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Yes that is a more educated Way to say it
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