Just remember everyone is human and humans are frail. If you are a Christian, remember even Jesus was betrayed.With that said,you can either forgive this person or you can drop this person. I know it is hard to have confidence and regain trust in this friend once something like this happens,but it is up to you how much you have enjoyed being friends and if you want to continue.Hard to give you a better answer since we don't know the issue. The best tot you tho.
This has happened to me in a very significant way. If you choose to let it, it will cause you to dig deeper then you ever have to understand what is really most significant to what you believe in and what your life is based upon. The other direction is ultimately bitterness. I'm not intending to ignore the pain and anger which is very real, however you will have to choose which path to take. Choose wisely. May God bless you ;)
If your best friend has betrayed you, and you're debating on whether to forgive them, think about your history with this person. Ask yourself these questions. Is this the first time? What kind of person is he or she with everyone else? Also, consider the situation. Was it a really big secret that was revealed or something severe happened? Was it something that happened on accident, or something purposely intended? Is this person talking about you negatively to other people? These are some general questions that should be thought about, this was what I thought about when this happened to me. To anyone seeking answers, good luck!
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There is nothing you can do but try to get the answers you need..but do you really want those?, and give it some long hard time... Losing trust us major and doesn't go away quickly.. emotions need to heal..