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Serious issues. what should i do to prove i'm not crazy? no sarcasm please. Thanks alot!

my father's been to mental hospital for 2times. my mother doesn't care for me much. she always behaves as she hates me n i'm her step daughter. its really very hurting. she beats me up several times on very silly reasons. i bleed alot coz of her. i've got a boyfriend for 9months. i love him alot. all my happiness in life is from him. at times i get quite depressed when i look at my family but when i look at him i forget everything n i'm very happy. my mother hates our relationship n doesn't allow us to do anything. she's just told us to separate. we still talk to each other secretly, meet each other (very rare) now coz my father has been to mental hospital my mother considers me crazy too. she says that i've got his genes in me so i gotta be crazy. she says i'm psyco just like him. i don't get her problem. i'm just a normal person whose not allowed to do anything, to go anywhere. i just go to school and sit at home for the rest of the day. she tortures me so much that i've gone in depression many times. i'm so young n i'm hating my life. i've tried to suicide but my neighbor stopped me. what should i do to feel happy n prove the point above?

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Oh my goodness my girl .. Sounds like you are in a very toxic environment .. No wonder you are having some real messed up feelings. It's not YOU or your genetics .. It's your environment .. aka: living with an abusive (step)parent.

I would suggest to talk to a school councillor. Please don't consider doing that as a sign of weakness or something to be embarrassed about. Asking for help is a sign of anything but! It's a sign of strength ... NOT weakness. This is bigger than you and should not be handled alone. You need help .. real help .. to figure out how to improve your situation, not just candy coated words.

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she's not my step mom but i FEEL she is :(
anyways thanks alot !!
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Sorry .. I must have read that wrong .. It really doesn't matter if she is your biological or step mother .. The remedy is the same. Talk to a counselor .. That's what they are there for.
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Wow she does not have the right to even touch you girl talk to a relative who CAN help or a close friends parent i dont Want to say call the cops or anything good luck

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my relative's are sick :(
anything else?
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btw. thanks lione!!
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A close friends parent who CAN help you
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Your welcome good luck
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my friends parent's are not in touch with her.
she doesn't mix much with people nor lets me mix with them.
i'm so alone :(
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Go tell your school show them your wounds from the beatings,,,do you have a Aunt? Grandparents?If not call the police not 911 the office tell them all you just told us,they WILL send help.Go stay the night with a friend shw your friends parents ask them to help you.ANYTHING,,get yourself some help.

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i'm not allowed to go anywhere!! :(
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For this, you don't need permission. Go.
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Call the cops. Your mom is a bad person. Bad people deserve to pay.

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Thanks but i can't
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She has no right to hit u and to make u bleed call child protection agents she sound like the one that's crazy u need to get out do u have some where else u can go

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even i think she's crazy! i feel that she's behind whatever happened with my father.
how do i make her feel herself that she IS crazy not ME?
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get cameras and tape her to prove she is wrong
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Are you serious?
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Won't work mentaltily disturbed people will not admit they have problems
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Talk to a school counselor your step mom does not have the right to touch you at all. Let alone draw blood. Good luck (:

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she's not my step mom :(

i went with my friend for her problems (they were like normal problems but still she wanted to visit the counselor) i didn't like the way she treated my friend. she just said the obvious things i mean the same things that i used to tell her thats it. she didn't go to the depth of her problem.

i don't think she will be able to guide me well :(
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You need to report this, immediately. You have to get out of this situation before you slip any further into depression or before your mother hurts you again. Please contact your local Child Protective Services, or Law Enforcement Agency. If you cannot do this on your own, get a trusted adult to help you. Tell your principal, your favorite teacher, a counselor, your neighbor. You deserve so much better. It sounds as though your mother is the one with the real mental issues.

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how do i make her feel that she's the main root of all the problems?
btw thanks alot!
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She's the crazy one. You will never convince her that she is in the wrong. Believe me, I've come across crazy people in my life, and you will never unravel the worms inside her head and make her realize that her behavior is causing your depression. The best thing to do is to cut your losses and get out now. Let her drive herself crazier. You will be in my prayers...
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I can't go out alone.
See, i'm just helpless! :'(
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Thanks alot!
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You don't have to be alone. The authorities will find a suitable home for you, if you don't have relatives who can take you in. And no one is truly helpless unless they choose to be. There are times when we all have to put on our big girl bloomers and go out and do what needs to be done. You ARE strong enough to do this. If you can survive that thing that gave birth to you, you can do anything you set your mind to.
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as soon as i'll step out alone ppl will come to eat me thats it. idk much about anything! that is why i feel afraid. i tried talking to her last night n then she just shouted at me n i went out thats it. don't know what to do now. i had a talk with her politely but she kept on shouting at me until she picked up a stick n i went out of the room.
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Perhaps I misunderstood... as soon as you step out alone people will come to eat you?
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The stepmother should be charged for child abuse...She has no right to beat you!

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she's NOT my step mother. i just FEEL she is!
btw thanks!
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No one has the right to beat you!
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avoid her as much as you can apparently she doesn't like you can you move in with a relative sense your her step daughter doesn't that mean your technically aren't her daughter maybe that's why if that was me ummm i think i would have ran away by now if it was me if she's that mean if you want to call social services oh by the way she says being a psycho is hereditary its not

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i wish to run away. i can't run alone. i want somebody!
i don't have money. i don't know how to drive. i have'nt seen the world outside the 4walls of my f***ing room :'(
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Hmmmm sounds like my life a little so your saying u can't leave your room
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Eyewander

Call a nearby relative, and move out!

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I hope you called!
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i can't. she won't let me :(
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Eyewander
If you are still in the situation head over to the nearest PD. They will know exactly what to do
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You have a right to use whatever means are at your reach to defend yourself. Just call 911 first, and let the dispatcher know that you are being attacked.
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I am not saying you are crazy. But if you have attempted suicide, you may have some psychological issues. Sounds like it would be related to your home life and not genetic.

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i don't think so. i'm really fed up of my life!
what else do you think i should do?
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The exact same thing is still happening to me, exept i have a stepdad whos too afraid to stand up for me and a drug addicted alcaholic mother who wishes we were all dead. The same thing with my boyfriend went on, but i got so sick of not being able to see him, we tried being civil and talked to my mom to see why, but her being the phyco she is, she hates him even more. Now i just go see him..and next time she even threatens you, call the police.

Honey, dont worry..we're all crazy in this messed up world..and your stepmoms the crazy one, not you!

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Aww, i wish everything becomes well on your side.

Thanks alot :)
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You too..keep in touch..we'll get through it together :)
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aww :)
for sure <3
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