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Please help quick! So a girl just said she liked me and...

im a girl too! im straight though. shes nice though and i wanna let her down nicely. help?!

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i think you need to tell her that you like her but not in the way she likes you

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Just tell her your interest is men and you don't want to hurt her feelings.

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Omg!!! Ok just say--- I feel really great that you like me and all but I'm just not that type of girl

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Just say in a polite way you don't feel the same. Letting her down harshly will upset the mood. After that, move on with life.

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^^ ( first 1) thts the best way... Couldnt say it bettr myself... Plus thts wierd

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Tell her your not a lesbian and u like men not other women

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Just politely say that she's nice but you are straight.that must be really awkward

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Say these words:
"Hi. Um, yeah, you know how you said that you liked me, well um I'm not that kind of girl and I do not want to date you. Sorry, but I am not willing to do that." Then smile and walk away.

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Dose she mean that she likes you as a friend or dose she mean she likes you more than a friend cause she might be what it is

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Just tell her your religion prevents you from being bi. Most religions do so it is most likely the truth

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hi!
i would just say to her " i dont like you like THAT i like you as a friend," but say it nicely :) good luck :)

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Just tell her you like her as a friend and you are attractive to men . And are you sure she ment it in that way ?

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Do something weird that will make her not like you! Like whenever you see her, talk in funny voices, e.g. Darth Vader, or Yoda. ;D

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be nice about it.. tell her that she awesome, you think she funny and nice and awesome to be with but you just dont feel like that towards her and you are straight so you never will. make sure she knows that its not a "at the moment" feeling but you will never but stilll like her a lot as a friend.

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Okay totally awkward. Just tell her, I'm sorry _________ but I'm straight and I'm sure of it. But your a great friend. WISH YOU LUCK!!!!

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say like i think ur pretty ____ but ims traight ur nice thogh to ask and mabye mention sum one to her

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tell the truth(that ur straight and u dnt<3 her like that ) its best to tell the truth even if it hurts

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Just nicely tell her that you like boys and say you can still be friends.

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Just tell her that you like boys only.. no girls. unless they are friends.

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First of all ask er if she was being serious and then if she says yes then tell her hey um... I;m sorry but I like _______( except say crush's name in the blank) and say I'm sorry that I don't feel the same.But if it was a joke then just laugh it off.

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Just go for it

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just be very straight forward with her say something like this im sorry i dont feel that way about you i only like boys and im not ever going to be into girls unless im like super wasted lol jk dont say that last part

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Simply tell her u don't like her that way. Just as friends. She will get over it :)

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just tell her you are straight and you just want to be friends :}






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tell her u only wanna b friends

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you shouldn't treat her differently to a boy who you didn't want to go out with. If you wanted to say 'no' to a boy nicely, you'd say something like sorry but no, say the same to her, she'll understand. I know because i have a by friend and she's asked my friend out occasional times, if you say no politely, you'll be okay

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let her know you dont roll that way!

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say really politely "im sorry, but i like u as a friend and it would b really awkward for me to b in a relationship with u... but i still want to b friends. can we still b just friends?" and then things should be all good. even if she gets her feelings hurt, she will get over it in time.

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