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so i told this guy who asked me out that i wouldn't go out with him. and he told me that he would kill himself if i didnt go out with him. and he wasn't bluffing. what should i do?

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Call the police.

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he told me he would kill himself right away if i did that
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Oh...go out with him and while you are get some information and then go call the police.
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sit him down n talk abut it...

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i did
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If he was not bluffing, does that mean he did it?
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he's sick
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Report this to an adult that you trust

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she cant one time she thought she was prego so i said tell an adault and she said my moms dead and her dads in jail
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Tell an adult cuz he has sum mental issues..or talk to him and figure things out from there..

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Tell his or your parents immediately. This is not for a teen to deal with. Don't you go out with him just to stop him from this behavior either.

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Youd be surprised how many followers you get by being a jacka**
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What's your problem Hunter?
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@Former.. I told him earlier that he was a jerk. Someone asked " what do spots on a chest X-ray indicate" Hunters response " you're going to die". I see him acting up constantly so told him what I thought. No biggy :)
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Tell his guardian

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go out with him then break upp

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dont you know what would happen after i break up with him?
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if she did what do you think would happen after they broke up! they aren't even dating and he said he would kill himself.. Imagine after they break up!
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Tell him that other girls would like to go out with him and he shuldnt waste his time on you if you don't like him like that and say that you are not interested if he still says that than you should tell someone that can do something about don't tell anyone else because that triggers rumours. Maybe you can hook him up with a friend or another girl that seems like his type and don't go out with him because if he is capable of damaging himself he is capable of damaging you so stay away from intimate relationship and just be friends but not to close of friends

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Tell his parents. No-one should use that as an excuse and legit reason to trap someone. That's not even...Gah...

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First if he's not full of crap, talk to his friends, parents, counselors, school personal. If you have to the cops. Stay away from him, he's a few sandwiches short of a picnic. He needs help that you're not qualified to handle

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Tell an adult and invite him over too work things out

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talk to him, or tell someone you trust. dont go out with him and pretend you like him though. that could just make it worse. by going out with him and leading him on to make him think you like him and then break up with him could also make him want to kill himself. i have been in a similar situation and its not easy.

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yeah thanks. im glad someone understands
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trust me i understand exactly. my friend was about to kill themself because he had no friends, i went out with him because i sorta liked him then after a while i wanted to break uo with him, but was scared that if i did he would kill himself, and when i finally did i just said "...but we can still be friends."
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Unless he's dead, he was bluffing. Im not trying to make light of the situation, do tell an adult, counselor, or his parents. This issue needs to b addressed. However, this isnt you problem n definately not a way to begin a relationship. Dont let him put this on you.

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That's what I was thinking too.
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You no what they say about great minds! ;)
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This is a hard situation, but you can't keep giving him what he wants because he threatens to kill himself. where will it end?

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I work with potential suicidal people and in your case you can not give in to emotional blackmail as you have your own stuff to take care of. If he tells you this again ring help i.e. Police. Once you do this he will stop threatening!

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Have a large discussion with him. Tell him maybe you want to be friends before you start going out, and to PLEASE not kill himself. He probably won't, but maybe you should just try to like him so he doesn't commit suicide. Life is gonna be hard when it comes to boys, but even if you said "No." to their request you still care about them, you're just not in love with them.

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dannie2012

Tell his parents or your parents or talk to him about it. Give him a heads up to see if he understands or not. Otherwise, go ahead and tell his parents.

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Tell thee POPO'S

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If your sure he was telling the truth call an ambulance because it is a medical emergency... actually you should actually call the police or an ambulance and his parents even though you might be on the doubtful side... Better safe then sorry.... and if he is lying he know he shouldn't say that next time and if he wasn't lying he would need to go to counciling and stuff....
(if you understand at all what im saying... I have it in my mind i just don't know how to word this answer)

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let him do it you dont need that in your life

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Because im stupid , i was in the same situation once and i decided to go out with him -_- . When we broke up he had his friend take pictures of him with a rope tied around his neck and the other end tied to a beam up in the cieling . His head was shlumped over and his friend told me he had just passed out . Turns out it was all a joke and it acctually almost gave me a heart attack . Dont make the same mistake as me gurl(:

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Tell him to do it. He probably doesn't have the guts. Because he's being a baby about the situation when people get reflected all the the time... He needs to man up a bit.

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that happened to me once just talk to him

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So if he's not bluffing he's dead?! Call someone.

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seriously just talk to him and if it doesn't work call somebody :(

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