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Okay so iv been in a relationship for a year now and me and my girlfriend have gotten really close . But today i saw one of my friends crying (shes a girl) so i went up to her and asked her what was wrong (it was something about her bf) but anyway when i was talking to her out of know where she kisses me it lasted about 5 sec before i pulled away. she said she was sorry but i didn't want to hear it so i just left and went home what should i do. if my gf finds out she will break up with. should i tell her please help me i dont know what to do

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Tell her before she finds out from someone else!!!..ur friend that's a girl was just sad and wanted u for comfort and her emotions were all mixed up and she kissed you...talk to her about it and try to stop talking to her very closely so ur gf won't feel weird..and also tell ur gf u pulled away..if u hav Been together for so long she might be mad at first but she will understand..a relationship is nothing without trust and honesty and that can easily be lost..so don't risk that happening..

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daviddanny
my gf is not the forgiving type thats why she dumped her last bf (for cheating)
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......some girl friend......
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daviddanny
sometimes i think that
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LosXAngeles96
Well she should understand u wasnt cheatin she attacked you tell her you got abused
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might want to think on that then, how often do you feel like she's way too paranoid?
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Well u didn't cheat..she should appreciate the fact that u were honest with her and are trying to be faithful..if she doesn't and can't get over it then I hate to say it but it's not a relationship worth having if she won't fight for it and appreciate it and overcome any challenges that arise..u didn't do anything wrong and if she doesn't forgive u for it..it's her problem..I knoee u r scared of losing her and that she will break up with u ..but that's the rite thing to do..and if she doesnt realize that..it's not ur fault..but keeping it from her is dysfunctional.and wat if she finds out..u never know..what then??..cuz then she definitely won't believe you...
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daviddanny
she had a bad experence with her first bf (for cheating) and now she is always paranoid im cheating on her but im not that kind of guy. anyway i feel she is always parnoid and i thought after a year of dating she would trust me but i guess not are all girls like that?
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LosXAngeles96
She sounds crazy but talk to her and make her listen
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daviddanny
shes nice and respectful shes just way to paranoid ill try to talk to her.......... sigh
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LosXAngeles96
You do that hope you get through this girls these dats
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LosXAngeles96
*days
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tell her the situation and ask her to help you fix the damage done and make it like you need help, mention that you never started anything and it was out of nowhere and you are pissed off she should understand but she might test you so watch it

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i'll try thx
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no prob, but hopefully not but if it ever happens again make sure to immediatly push away no matter what state of shock your in and you have a right to "get mad!!!!!" that other girl has no right to do that and dont speak with her about it ignore her for a bit it will hurt but trust me if you interact more you might be ruining your rep.
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Tell her why she did it and if it was sudden you weren't expecting it so it wasn't your fault she should understand your a good friend

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Talk to your girlfriend and be honest with her ad if she brake up with you over that then it wasn't ment to be! Just don hid it from her she will not get as mad if it comes from u but if she finds out and you didn't tell her things will be bad

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Thx I'll try
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Well i would tell her the truth tell her that she did it and there's nothing going on say your sorry and if she's the right girl she will understand.

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TELL HER! im sorry but she might dump you either way. try to explain first and see what happens.

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